Can time change everything? Don't be stupid, it's only us who are really changing

Can time really change everything? From childhood to adulthood, when we encounter life and death, or are very sad, we can always hear people say, don’t worry, time will change everything. But is this really the case?

Perhaps, in this world, many things, viewpoints and perspectives will change with time. But the reason why these changes are not because of time itself, but because of time itself, but because of their original appearance and original position, they are not as firm as you think, and it is easy to change because of the external world. And shake, change, or because what everyone has insisted on is not as solid, unbreakable, and seamless as you think. Just like our understanding of the shape of the earth, its change does not depend on time, but the original theory is untenable. If we understand more, it will naturally be pushed down. This can also be extended to say that we Change in thinking, growth.

Immutable Amber Creatures

Yes, that's how the world is. And here, you may find a key point, time itself does not bring any changes to us, only us who change. I think everyone knows, has seen the real thing, or seen the amber animals in the photos that have gone through millions of years and are still well preserved. In the world of amber, it seems as if time has stopped. Animals/plants have always maintained their pre-death form and will not change in the slightest. Whether it is skin or hair and other body parts that are difficult to preserve for a long time, it can preserve it exactly the same. But, is this really because time stopped, which led to this wonderful change? No, of course not, it's just because of amber's protection that they haven't changed.

Our inner amber

Amber not only exists in nature, but also exists in our hearts. It always protects us silently, so that our sad and painful past can be enclosed in this bright and colorful amber world, and will forever be deposited in the world of amber. Inside the unknown soil. Maybe on the surface, all the things that you don't want to remember have been baptized by time, so you no longer remember this memory that you want to avoid, but you are smart enough to know that it has always been hidden in you. 's heart. Just like amber, over time you will accidentally let it reappear, let it show up in the world again. You will still accidentally break it, and let this piece of the past that you don't want to remember will linger in your mind again.

a real change

Time is not the real solution, what you need is to accept, understand, learn and change. You need to take a deep breath, walk quietly outside, read books you like, draw pictures you like, or do whatever you like, to stabilize your emotions and let your unpleasant emotions get better Express it, then take care of yourself like you love your relatives, your lover, accept your current situation, don't blame yourself, because pain is never a sin, just like a newborn baby, you can't have anything wrong , just blame a newborn baby for what they do, because they don't understand, and your situation is like that, and it's because you don't understand that you are brooding about these distressing pasts, and because of this, you don't You need to blame yourself for your performance.

Of course, it is not so easy for a person to realize the truth on his own. At this time, you may need a teacher. It can be psychology, philosophy of life, or spirituality. As long as it can help you understand more, see If you understand more, then it will be a good teacher, and then slowly follow the methods they use, find out what is suitable for you, and improve yourself step by step, so that you can slowly get out of the pain, and improve yourself. no longer susceptible.

And when you can do this, you will have confidence in yourself, you will not criticize yourself for no reason, be low yourself, and allow yourself to accurately apply the law of attraction (for more information, click here: The Law of Attraction It's useless? Maybe you didn't really understand it ), and because you can fill the void inside yourself, it stops you from relying on others to try to be whole, which ultimately makes you, for a while, healthier love relationship

Let pain be nourishment

Remember, pain is not a sin. Every pain is also a nutrient that can bring you growth. It is like feces. It will only make you feel uncomfortable when you are alone. Only you are willing to try to understand it. , and transform it in the right way, it can become a real nutrient, nourishing the earth and nourishing your soul. Maybe, it will be a little difficult to achieve at the beginning, but try it slowly, you will eventually see a life that is different, a life that is different.

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