Career Lab｜He Zewen's Lecture Experience

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Following the previous post about my anxiety about the future, so I spent a whole day looking for answers. I listened to the 126th episode of "Life Planning is Greater than Career Planning" by the editor of the tea room, and went to the bookstore to buy a book called " Mind Exercise " wants to focus on what I want to do by taking care of the planning of the face, like I said, I really don't know what I'm groping like this, but it's impossible to do nothing!

I searched according to the keywords and wanted to find any answer that could attract me. I found the FB fan group " Career Lab ", and I happened to see a speech today. About He Zewen's new book " Achieving Your Future ", I was in the bookstore for a while. I have read through this book, but the target audience of the book is newcomers to the society, or students who want to know the future direction, obviously it is not enough for the answers I am looking for. But looking at the writing, I decided to take part in the lecture.

New book lecture content

The content of the lecture first focused on his life, full of inspirational process: born in 1990, his parents divorced since he was a child, and his aunt and second uncle funded him to go to school. In the small country I studied, the students around me were from good families, so I was treated with a lot of cold eyes. In high school, he was cynical, and he was not in par with the small and the big, and was almost dropped out of school, but when he saw his father and aunt struggling for school, he suddenly sobered up, applied for a one-year repetition in high school, and worked hard for college. Because of some turning points, I finally entered the History Department of Zhongxing University, but I also got into my favorite volunteer.

At Zhongxing University, he was a man of the hour, leading several activities at a time, and since then he has been mentoring various schools to organize activities. After leaving the society, he worked as a civil servant for a short time. Later, he participated in the training of the Foreign Trade Association and went abroad. After that, he served as the HR of Hon Hai, and he was also dispatched abroad. After joining Hon Hai, he became a supervisor within a year. In foreign countries, because of curiosity, he became a monk. The wonderful stories of life are included in his other book " Don't Let the World Define You "

At the end of the lecture, I mentioned how to achieve my goals in life and gave a lot of advice. I want to experience confusion, or people who have read a lot of books will find some common truths. These truths are also mentioned in different people. He also mentioned many common truths. So at this time, I focused on appreciating his slides. I deeply felt that what I still need to improve now is these soft powers.

Learn to express, present effect, I need to continue to explore what I lack and want to learn.

And during the QA time after the meeting, I asked a question: How to solve the fever of my three-minute study?

The reason I ask this is because I often do things in a hurry, but after three months and four months, the follow-up is weak. The only thing that lasts is probably one-on-one sports in English, and writing, which I am still very passionate about, because I have all these things. You can also set goals and gradually achieve them to reward yourself. In the end, the others feel that the more you touch them, the more you want to die.

His answer was:

1. Three minutes of popularity is not necessarily a bad thing, it is also a way to try and know that you don't like it
2. The goal is too high to be reached and give up, so lowering the goal value and continuing to do it is the key.
3. Find the right group to inspire and grow together

Basically, the first point and the second point are already in my heart, but the third point really stumped me. I have never been a group character. I am in a lot of situations by myself. It is really difficult for me to find a suitable partner. Often I am the quickest person to slip away after participating in an event, although I do not exclude expressing ideas, communicating with each other during group discussions, or taking the initiative to lead the discussion process. But there has never been anyone who has continued to communicate afterwards. I either don't want to, or I never have, and I've never really cared about it. Maybe now I have to do it on purpose?

Finally, he mentioned the concept of "dream incubator" to help everyone find career direction, provide learning courses, and bring resources closer. I am very interested in this matter and want to talk more about it. But thinking of having dinner with my dad tonight, I hurried away. It's a pity now that I think about it, I should have taken the opportunity to ask a little more about this concept.

This made me review myself. I am not good at seizing opportunities, and I am not good at taking initiative. I always feel that the ball will come and play again, but after meeting more and more people, I find that I am too slow. I really need to be more proactive. Fortunately, be more cheeky, ask more capable people, maybe... maybe ideas can inspire a little more? !

The past six months have made me realize one thing. When I am never ready, the only chance is whether to take it or not, and whether someone will give it to you. I've literally been locked in the lab for too long. Close yourself up for too long. Looking at the students of Zhongxing University who founded the organization motivated by the writer, they hold such an event. This thinker thinks it's a pity, there are not so many resources in the middle, and I want the students of my school to have more contact with people in the industry, but I can't find their fan group except the career laboratory, unfortunately I forgot the keyword .

I don’t know how long this positive energy can last. I like people who are close to high frequencies. This will stimulate me to work hard to keep myself close to high frequencies. Otherwise, I will be overwhelmed by my own negative emotions.

Well, if there are relevant career course lectures, please do not hesitate to tell me. On the road of exploration, I hope that one day I can find a path of my own. I believe I can , and I hope that there are people who are destined to discuss it with me, and it would be great to be able to participate in activities together.