Gossiping about loyalty and filial piety

I was going to talk about something else...but last night Xiaolu re-watched Jin Yong's Legend of the Condor Heroes...

Suddenly a little nauseous....

In the past, when the focus was on Huang Rong and Guo Jing, I didn't think about it too much, but now I look at it again, but I suddenly feel pity for Yang Kang....
Yang Kang, or Wanyan Kang, what's wrong with him thinking that he is a golden man? It was his fault that Wanyan Honglie planned to harm Yang Tiexin and others because he wanted to get Bao Xiruo, but he did the best of a father's love in treating Yang Kang...
In this regard, Wanyan Kang was born in the Jin country, grew up in the Jin country, what is wrong with him thinking that he is a Jin person and that Wanyan Honglie is his father?

In the past, some works would describe the situation where the parents are so-called decent, but the children are raised by the demon religion. It feels so good to see....

When this kind of loyalty and filial piety cannot be both, what should we do?

Mencius has told us his answer~

Tao Ying asked, "What if Shun was the emperor, Gao Tao was a scholar, and Gu Gu would kill people?"
Mencius said, "It's enough to stick to it."
"Then Shun couldn't help it?"
He said, "Husn Shun was wicked and banned it? Husband suffered from it."
"Then what about Shun?"
He said, "Shun looks down on the world and abandons the world as much as he abandons the world. He steals the burden and flees, following the seashore.

One day, a disciple of Mencius, Tao Ying, asked his teacher, "Teacher, when Shun was the Son of Heaven, Gao Tao (who was upright and not selfish) was a judge. If Gu Gu (Shun's father) killed someone at this time, Shun would How to do it?"
Mencius replied, "You can do whatever you want with your arrest."
Tao Ying asked again, "Will Shun watch his father get arrested if he doesn't stop him?"
Mencius replied, "How could Shun stop him? The law is based on the principles of heaven and human conditions, and his father's murder and arrest were based on the law."
Tao Ying continued to ask: "Then Shun watched his father get arrested? Why don't he do something?"
Mencius finally replied to his students: "Shun would give up his world, just like throwing away a pair of broken shoes. He would run away with his father behind his back in private, and fled to live by the sea, and lived happily with his father all his life, forgetting to be the emperor. things.”

For Xiaolu, this is how a person should behave. The family can't cover up when they make mistakes, but I can't do it if I want to see him die. I was able to run away like this before, but now it's probably difficult...
Even if there is a place for me to live alone... I don't have the life skills to take care of myself and my family....
So I can only persuade the other party to surrender, and then make all preparations for him after the atonement, accompany him to return to society, and let him know that I still love him and will not give up. This is Xiaolu's solution. Teach to kill the other party to prove their justice.... I really can't accept it....

Regarding the way of dealing with Shun that Mencius guessed, if everyone was Shun and his own father killed someone, what would he do?