admit mistakes learn from mistakes don't be afraid to make mistakes
Ding Lingjuan, founder of Century Ogilvy PR, once said
The mentality of learning from mistakes can be divided into three types: the first type of people, seeing others make mistakes, is deeply vigilant against making the same mistakes; the second type of people, seeing others make mistakes and not feeling deeply, waiting until they make the same mistakes Only then did I wake up and realize that the third type of person, who made a mistake, always felt that it was someone else's fault and would not reflect on it, so he would make the same mistake next time.
It is difficult for ordinary people to achieve the first type. The first type is a rare race. (mostly hard to learn from history)
Most people fall into the second category, waiting until they make mistakes before they learn. (I usually feel that it is far away from me)
And the stupidest person is the one who makes a mistake himself, makes excuses or blames others, and makes the same mistake next time, and his life will go back and forth.
1. Why did it happen?
2. Is there any way to make up for it? If so, do it right away.
3. What did I learn from this? How can I improve in the future so that this doesn't happen again?
Thinking about these questions thoroughly is the growth mindset you should have after making mistakes. Understand why you make this mistake, is the concept wrong? Still thinking about it? Is there any remedy at this stage? The most important thing is to learn what can make this thing never happen again, get rid of bad habits or inappropriate concepts, grow rapidly, and make yourself better and better.
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Don't be afraid to make mistakes
I wrote the wrong title last time, and I was wrong again. What to do? How do I keep doing it wrong...
It's okay to be wrong
(Think of it another way) You must be very sad, right? Feel like you're always doing something wrong and not doing well.
Even so, don't be too hard on yourself.
Because everyone makes mistakes
To make sure it doesn't happen again, first "find out why you did it wrong"
If you don't know why you made a mistake, it's easy to make a mistake again,
Don't worry, if you want to be 100% perfect at one time,
If you are too impatient, you may make even bigger mistakes!
Please make up your mind first, then slowly correct your mistakes
How about preparing a "doing it wrong notebook"?
Write down the wrong questions and review them again.
In this way, there will be fewer and fewer wrong questions!
(start to try it out)
Most people close their eyes and pretend they can't see their mistakes.
But point fingers at other people's mistakes.
When others point out their mistakes, the mood is bound to be affected.
When your mood is affected, you make mistakes more often
The best way is to put the malicious criticism of others in the left ear and the right ear out
Don't be afraid to make mistakes
Making mistakes is just a little process of getting better
1. Write down three things you often do wrong
2. What is the reason for the mistake?
3. When you find out that your friend has done something wrong, you will pretend not to see it, or correct it severely
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