child's future

When parents talk about their children's further education at the party, it will suddenly become lively, with different opinions and gossip.

"Going to the Greater Bay Area to develop is a major trend", "It is advantageous to study in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou", "Go abroad for a few years to see if there is a way to get immigrants", "It is serious business to stay in Macau and find a way to get a government job." .

Everyone will come up with the idea, but the consequences are borne by the child alone. On such occasions, I always keep silent, and I don't want to join in and give the impression that the little ones are nosy.

In the past, some students wanted to hear my opinion before going to a higher school, but generally they couldn't get a clear answer. Usually I would say: "University is just an introduction, you can study whatever you like! You can change departments if you don't feel comfortable in the middle of reading. There should not be too many doubts. Of course, if you want to take into account the future prospects, you should not mess around during your studies, you must learn some necessary professional skills in a limited four years, and you must broaden your horizons and learn to get along with different people. , Set your own career plan, you can't have your parents worry about everything after graduation."

I always believe that every young person can find his own way, and that he can have a bright future in any subject. The difference is only how much effort he puts in and whether he is sincere or not.

I have seen a lot of people with good grades who only master the skills of exams. They have no opinion without books. They are arrogant and difficult to get along with. Such a "top man", even with a high degree of education, still doesn't quite know what he wants, and complains more often, as if the whole world owes him.

On the other hand, we always have the opportunity to meet some people whose achievements are not dazzling, but are resilient and hard-working. They usually deal with problems calmly, think about the overall situation, and take the initiative to solve problems for their bosses and partners. This kind of trait is not necessarily learned from books, but in the real workplace, with a good attitude and beautiful methods, it will definitely be more popular than those who have good grades and do not understand the world.

As for what school you are from and what department you study, it is not that it is not important, but parents don't need to be too nervous when they are concerned. It is always up to children. It is not necessary to constantly instill various ways of survival from elementary school. It is enough to give them space for healthy growth, cultivate their own opinions, care for and encourage them, and respect their aspirations and decisions.