【Jin Yong·The Condor Heroes】Love is willing to change for each other

Little Dragon Girl Yang Guo, one loves quiet, the other loves liveliness. Although the two love each other deeply, their imagination of the future life is completely different from that of modern people. Not not love, but how to live together. Love does not mean understanding, understanding does not mean acceptance, both parties need to run in from love to companionship.

After Xiaolongnv first came out of Jianghu, she met Yang Guo again. Guo Jing objected to Yang Guo and Xiaolongnv being together on the grounds that it was unethical, but failed to separate Yang Long and Huang Rong. And go. Huang Rong's starting point was "being good for Yang Guo", but what she said was a fact that could not be denied. Many modern couples also ignore each other's problems, thinking that everything is OK when they are in love, but this is not the case. After the love period, it is the peak of the friction period. Many couples choose to break up because they cannot pass this test, so there are many divorces.

Yang Long and the two can go on forever, in addition to experiencing life and death, they are also willing to change for each other. Xiao Longnv had just left the arena and met Yang Guo again. She wanted to stay with Yang Guo in the ancient tomb, and she would never come out. Yang Guo replied, "I'm bored and bored, so let's come out together." So Xiao Longnu left Yang Guo. After several twists and turns, separated and reunited, and then separated for 16 years, the two finally managed to keep the clouds open. Yang Guo, who met Xiaolongnv again at the bottom of a heartless valley, asked a question that didn't suit his temperament. He asked Xiaolongnv to die at the bottom of the valley or return to the world of flowers. Xiao Longnv also answered an answer that was not in line with her temperament, she said: "The above is not good, come back again". At this time, Yang Long and the two had already understood each other's personalities. Yang Guo knew that Xiao Longnv liked to be lonely, so he asked her if she wanted to stay at the bottom of the valley. Naturally, Yang Guo would accompany her; Xiao Longnv also knew that Yang Guo liked liveliness and didn't like to live alone. But Xiaolongnu is willing to change for Yang Guo and return to the world of flowers.

When I saw this passage, comparing the two who considered their future life based on their own preferences, we can see that both of them are willing to change for each other. In "Eternal Heaven and Dragon Slayer", the woman surnamed Yang said: "After Zhongnan Mountain, the tomb of the living dead, the condor heroes, disappeared from the rivers and lakes." Another shock, Yang Guo, who likes to roam outside, lives together with Xiaolongnu. In life, he also changed himself for Xiaolongnu.

How to get along with each other in love is a big question. One of the tricks is to understand each other, not only consider yourself, but also consider each other, and be willing to change for each other. If a couple is willing to understand, accept, and change for each other, the road can go down together.