What if you don't have children?

tasteful memories

Once I ate too much dry cheese, it looked like I ate nearly a kilogram. I don’t know if I ate the sealing wax by mistake, or it was just because of the cheese... I couldn’t hold my shit anymore. It has been raised for three days, and it has grown to the point where it is ready to undergo surgery.
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About two centimeters in diameter, it really hurts.
In the end, while sitting on the toilet, the first thing she said to her girlfriend in a trembling voice was: "You won't have children in the future, it hurts." She was blindfolded, and then died of laughter.
I'm also surprised why this sentence pops up -_-|||

Worries of the stubborn elderly

Elderly people often think that they can’t grow old without children. But the reality is that not all children can support their parents; nor are the elderly who rely on passive income from investment or the elderly in welfare society, who cannot live without children. Therefore, children are only the most convenient way for them to care for the elderly, not a necessary condition for elderly care.
Some elderly people will say, "Oh, you will be lonely when you are old without children." Then I can only say that the old man himself was too boring, so that the rare free time could not be filled with interest.
As for the old people who care about the succession of the lineage, is there a throne waiting to be inherited? If it's just to inherit a surname, then the purpose of this child's birth is too pitiful, so don't harm the child.

It's not about refusing to have children

Raising children takes time and costs a lot of money. Of course, some people see this as an "investment" in the future. Few of the traditional old stubborn people have children because they want their children to be happy. The reason is also very simple. They themselves don't know what happiness is. They live to sixty or seventy years old with a sense of responsibility for life. Naturally, there will be no happiness that they want to pass on.
Therefore, it is not that we reject having children, but that we will give birth when we are sure that there will be extra time to give the child happiness.
Logically, it is not that the elderly have not been cared for since childhood, and children deserve to suffer the same grievances as their childhood.

women's freedom

It is girls' stomachs that want to carry children, so it is their freedom to have children or not. Men's responsibility is to maintain their freedom to have children, not like an old stubborn stubborn who eats too much salt, in order to pass on their surnames that they don't care about at all, telling girls that "having children is a responsibility". It's just a uterus, and having a baby becomes a responsibility? This kind of male compatriot, you may also have a brain, and you can also fulfill the following responsibilities of independent thinking. "Can" represents rights, and "should" represents responsibility. Please use your brain to distinguish between two completely different concepts.

East and West men

This kind of men's defense of women's freedom is very strange to say in Chinese, and I find it strange myself. Because the Chinese context has regarded women as appendages of the clan since ancient times, even if the line is passed on for them, it will be considered that even if a woman is changed, the result of the line will be the same. It doesn't matter who this woman is giving birth to.

Although most countries in Europe are typically male-dominated countries, even more male-dominated than any eastern country. But no matter how patriarchal, they also got rid of the family concept left over from the Middle Ages and aristocracy. No one cares too much about whether the surname is continued. People care more about whether the children born are the same as their own childhood, or even happier. There will also be no men who force women to give birth according to their own wishes because women have changed their surnames to their own. First, because of respect for women's cultural traditions, and second, because of legal protection. If the accused gets divorced, In the future, the salary he earned will be paid to the ex-wife on a pro-rata basis. So I don't dare, and there is no need to do something that can only be done by the best scum in the world, such as secretly piercing condoms.

old lady next door

Sometimes when we go out to buy groceries, we meet the old Italian lady next door. One day we chatted and told us, don’t give birth to children too early, and enjoy the life of young people more. She said that she gave birth to her first child at the age of thirty-two, and that giving birth too early would delay her life.
Maybe some of them can even consider the continuation of their surnames as responsible Orientals, and they don't even know what "enjoy life" is in the old lady's mouth.

postscript

I read what happened to Ms. Chin yesterday, but since the opinion of this article has little to do with her situation, and to avoid the suspicion of stealing other people's traffic, it is irrelevant. I have already left a message to bless her, so let's bless more women so that their wishes can be respected.