【Jin Yong·The Condor Heroes】Guo Fu kneeling for her husband
Guo Fu played a decent role in The Legend of Condor Heroes and helped the villains seriously injure Yang Guo and Xiao Longnv. Guo Fu felt that she had made a mistake, apologized, and was scolded, so others should no longer accuse her. It is not easy for a person to be so self-centered. Even if she was rescued by Yang Guo many times, she could only thank Yang Guo from the bottom of her heart for a moment, but she felt that Yang Guo was just showing off her skills in front of her, and that grateful heart floated away. Guo Fu's opinion of Yang Guo was that she would have to get along with her. However, this mentality has changed because of Yeluqi's predicament.
During the battle of Xiangyang, Guo Fu's husband Yeluqi was trapped and it was not easy to rescue him. At this time, Yang Guo told Guo Fu that as long as she knelt down and kowtowed, he would rescue Yeluqi. This self-centered Guo Fu actually knelt down! For the sake of her husband, the most important face and temper can be put aside. If she was trapped, she would rather be killed than ask Yang Guo for help, right? After Yeluqi was released by Yang, Guo Fu actually "realized what she was doing in the past"... It seems that saving Guo Fu ten times is not worth saving her husband once...
Guo Fu's kneeling and repentance became more and more interesting. Jin Lao pointed out a very interesting side of human nature: people think that others are more important than themselves . It's nothing to save yourself, but to save someone who is important to you is worthy of gratitude. On the other hand, it is nothing to hurt yourself, but it is absolutely necessary to hurt someone who is important to you. Huang Rong was willing to risk her own life, to receive three iron nails from Qiu Qianchi, and to find half a heartless pill for Yang Guo, but she did not want her daughter to suffer any harm, because she thought her daughter was more important than herself. If Yang Guo wanted to get "an arm" back, I believe Huang Rong would be willing to take it for Guo Fu; Lu Wushuang was always worried about Yang Guo's arm being cut off, just because she thought Yang Guo was very important; Yang Guo's arm was cut off by Guo Fu, and his resentment followed The days were forgotten, but Guo Fu hurt Xiaolongnv, and Yang Guo hated it very much, because Xiaolongnv was very important to Yang Guo. Guo Fu is willing to kneel for her husband, she really loves her husband!
This phenomenon can be seen not only in fiction, but also in the real world. Some people are fine with being badly spoken of themselves, but it's unbearable if it's a family member or a loved one being badly spoken to. I have seen some people being scolded by themselves, and they can take it lightly, but when they are referred to as "parents", "lover", and "children", they immediately retort. In the hospital, it is common to see parents who have cured their children and are grateful to the doctor.
This aspect of human nature, Jin Yong wrote well and profoundly.
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