Are you going to have two kids?

All along, many people will ask me, and even persuade me to have a second child.
They all think that two children are better than one child, and when their parents are old in the future, they will take care of each other.

The previous thinking is roughly like this:
Many people asked, "Are you planning to have a second child?" Many mothers in the same period had a second child. The mothers I know are all good mothers, they are both beautiful and brave. Maybe I am a person who thinks a lot. Before deciding to have a first child, I have already thought a lot about "marriage relationship" and "how to raise issues" before deciding to try to conceive and become a mother.

Looking back on the past, the idea at that time was still naive. Only when you are a mother can you realize the difficulty of being a parent. It is really not easy to educate a good child. Stable economic ability, physical strength, mental strength, and intelligence are absolutely essential. Then, ever since the child came into the world. In the past two years, I have personally felt that things that were originally far away from us, which would not have happened in a developed society, have all happened one by one.

At some point we think that we can't fly freely, we can't just take a breath of fresh air. We have to be careful before we can speak our hearts out. We are being defrauded by bad guys and not treated fairly. In the past, when the environment was healthy, as long as you take good care of your body and work hard, you will have a chance to succeed. Humans still need to understand speech. Will a good character, down-to-earth diligence, and a voice for injustice be rewarded?

There are many contradictions in the heart, and the evil fruits planted by human beings make natural disasters continue to occur. In the future of the world, will there be more viruses of different types? Bring one more human to the world, will he/she be happy? Or will it be hated by other humans, and one more person will grab resources?

In addition, I often hear about many brothers and sisters, because the previous generation was not educated and the distribution of resources was uneven. So that the brotherhood becomes a kind of debt. Because they are brothers and sisters, the elders require that one of them obligately pay for the other. Many people have no choice but to accept it, which leads to increased stress and psychological imbalance. Can we be an impartial parent? Let siblings love each other, they are both independent and help each other, and build a warm and harmonious home together.

Perhaps, on the day when I longed to have a second child, I already had full confidence in the world and human beings. I believe that most of the rulers are kind, and that because of the cooperation of human beings, there will be no more problems such as wars, disasters and viruses in the world. We can share a good life again.

Now, looking at the lovely son, there is still such hope. Because of him, I believe that the current difficulties are just a transition period, and the future world will definitely get better and better. As parents, let's use our actions and thoughts together to hope that the world will return to a perfect state.

The conclusion is: "I really don't have the courage to take another human to the world to take an adventure."

However, whenever I think of my sister <br class="smart">When I feel lost, when I can't find anyone to listen to, and I don't know who to share with me, I have my biological sister. No matter how boring she talks, the person who laughs at her is the person who makes me feel the most secure. No matter how you express it, you are not afraid of what she thinks. Even if we haven't seen each other for two years, we have a lot of topics. We talk on the phone every night until midnight, and even his husband would say to her, "You have a good relationship with your sister." But recently, because of a certain We disagree on this matter, and both sides remain silent until now. My heart still hurts. It may take a little time to clear up the misunderstanding.

It's just, in the bottom of my heart, what can replace the family that has blood and a good relationship?
I will think, in fact, it is really good to have one more sibling, to make up for each other, and someone to share things.

Today is my dearest sister's birthday, I wish you a happy birthday.
You never knew it was because of you that I wondered if I needed to have another child.