Have you ever been

"Want to change the other partner's mind?"

We all have an "ideal lover" in our hearts

So often unconsciously hope that he

meet your requirements

But "marriage is looking for a partner, not a dream"

Even boyfriend and girlfriend

Obviously with such a person

But he has to become another person in his own imagination.

It's easy to lose sight of the person's real existence

Then you'll start dividing

Project the "good" and "bad" in your heart onto each other

We need to break out of falling in love with an imaginary person

Because no one wants to be transformed

Many times it is because of this that the partner wants to resist

cause various conflicts

we want to resolve these conflicts

1 You must be aware of your unrealistic expectations

2 and see each other's real presence

3 Learn to live with the real presence of the other person

Only accept the real person

own real existence + real existence of the other party

The love born from this relationship

It is the most practical and true

Avoid assigning the answers to your personal life, the reasons for your happiness and misfortune, to the other person's right or wrong

We are all going back to your heart in the end

Like we live in a very solid cage

We thought that to get out of this cage, we had to have a superhero to save ourselves

but eventually you will find

The door of the cage can actually be opened with a slight push.

And no one can pull you out of the cage

Because "you have a whole bunch of ways to refuse help"

key

In fact, in my own

What we need to learn is

"Looking for proof of love in imperfect relationships"

Open the cage trapped in your heart with the key in your hand

So don't run away easily in a relationship (break up)

If the other party does not have a very bad serious problem

For example, casual promiscuity has no boundaries and violent tendencies.

Then we learn to be tolerant to each other

be patient with each other

because of intimacy

the most important is

"Practice Your Heart"

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