【Jin Yong·The Condor Heroes】When can Guo Jing and Huang Rong tell Yang Guo that his father is not a good person

Yang Guo is the son of Yang Kang, Yang Kang did a lot of bad things in the shooting of the eagle, almost killed Guo Jing, and killed the five monsters of Jiangnan with Ouyang Feng, and finally died of the poisonous thorn on the armor of Huang Rong's soft hedgehog. Guo Jing and Huang Rong naturally knew that Yang Kang was a bad person, but Yang Guo didn't know, he didn't know anything about his father, Yang Guo's mother Mu Nianci didn't tell him, Guo Jing Huang Rong didn't tell him either. Yang Guo did not give up the opportunity to know about his father. By chance, he learned from the foolish aunt that his father died indirectly because of Huang Rong, so he had the idea of taking revenge on Guo Jing and Huang Rong. Everything stemmed from Yang Guo's ignorance that his father was not a good person. If Guo Jing was not guarding Xiangyang, Yang Guo might have killed Guo Jing with his sword.

Yang Guo didn't understand the whole picture of the incident, and imagined his father as a good person, so he felt that Huang Rong, who indirectly killed his father, was an enemy. In the end, it was by chance that he learned that his father was a bad person after being informed by Ke Zhen'e. At that time, Yang Guo was in his thirties. Yang Guo felt inexplicable grief and anger after knowing that his father was a bad person, and also understood why Huang Rong was always on guard against her.

When should I tell Yang Guo that his father is not a good person? Yang Guo wanted to know about his father. Anyone who knew it knew that Yang Kang was not a good person. Can he tell Yang Guo about these matters? If not as a child, why? Are you afraid that Yang Guo can't accept it? Or is he afraid that his morality has not yet been established, that he will avenge his father? Or is he afraid that he can't accept the fact that his father is a bad person? Not as a child, but as a youth?

This problem is not only in fiction, but also in real society. A child in a single-parent home wonders, "Why is there only a mother or a father?" A child in the care of a grandmother and a grandfather wonders, "Where are Mom and Dad?" When parents are in jail for bad deeds, when should they tell their children? Say? I once heard a social worker friend share a case he heard from a teacher in class. There was a child whose mother was raped and became pregnant (as did Yang Guo in the first edition of Shendiao), he was born without an abortion, and then the child was thrown away. After a turn, he went to a foster family. The child calls the two elders in the foster family "uncle" and "aunt". One day the child asked his uncle where his parents were, but the uncle didn't know how to respond. Because the child asked such a question, the social workers and foster families in charge of the child were hesitant to tell the child his origin, and if so, when should he choose? At that time, the social worker friend and his classmates in the class didn't know how to answer, and everyone was embarrassed. After some discussion, three points of contention were reached: whether to say it, when to say it, and how to say it. The teacher's answer is that there is no standard answer.

When even social workers don't know how to deal with it, it's normal for ordinary people to be confused. From this point of view, Guo Jing and Huang Rong have been facing the problem of how to explain to Yang Guo. It might be right not to tell Yang Guo about his father, but Huang Rong would be very useless to be wary of him without Yang Guo's knowledge. Not knowing that her father was a bad person, and being wary of Huang Rong, Yang Guo would come to the conclusion that Huang Rong didn't like it. he.

If I were Guo Jing, I would probably tell Yang Guo about his father when he could tell right from wrong. If he didn't believe it, I would ask him to check it out. If he wanted revenge, I would go back to the source and tell him to go to Ouyang Feng.