[Bandstand] Be the one you love the most

Recently, many of my friends are in a bad mood. I was in a bad mood myself, because my work and life were not going well. In many cases, we have wronged ourselves to cater to others and end up suffering ourselves. After reading @kaihangsheng's article, I thought of a few songs.

Fang Haomei-You are your own legend

For the so-called ideal life and family, we usually suppress our dreams. We are chased by work day and night, but what we lose is our life and the time we spend with our family. In such a contradiction, what is perfect?

No matter how old you are today

Live without regrets to be the one you love

In fact, even if it is not perfect, as long as you are the one you love and live without regrets, isn't it already an ideal and beautiful life?

Zheng Xinyi - Goddess

Each of us can be beautiful and can be our own god/goddess. We have our own personalities and idiosyncrasies, and it's these that make us not like a cast. Why do we keep changing ourselves for the sake of the world?

Of course, it's still necessary to dress for special occasions and to control your words and deeds. Dressing like a visual musician for solemn occasions is too much. But do our usual hairstyles, clothes, and even our body shape have to follow the trend, or match the various criticisms of our relatives and friends around us?

Looking up, who will be like you, and you will be noble in the palace

Everyone in the judges looked unhappy

Hope the scepter of hope is in you, in your hand, shining

Why use him to appreciate your good looks

The standard aesthetics collide with you and accuse you of not conforming to the worldly vision

You're naturally shining and you don't lie

Keep your head up, live confidently, live brightly

Fang Haomei-If the world turns out not to be what you expected

The world will change and people will change, and people will come and go in your life journey. Maybe there will be a reunion, maybe this is the end.

The world is changing, and plans can never keep up with the changes. In 2020, I believe everyone will feel deeply. But even so, keep at it.

If the world turns out not to be what you expected, still face the uneasy weather with humility, please remember

If love turns out not to be what you expected, then you realize that you can't make it together. The truth of lovelorn is always limited. The wind and rain will finally wait until the dream time is changing. You are you.

Feel free to live the real you

All the storms will pass, hold on to hope

Finally, I conclude with Eason Chan's today