Do you consider yourself the best and most beautiful person?

Do you consider yourself the best and most beautiful person?
If not, it means we don't think we're good enough to fall in love with who we are first.

But what is the best and most beautiful definition?
Is it social achievement? Or have these, those? Abundant money, assets? Or maybe, a person, a deeply loving relationship?
What do these definitions mean to you? Is it a burden, or does it make us radiate joy from our hearts?

That definition, whatever it is,
If you can't radiate joy from your heart, or make yourself feel very satisfied and beautiful,
It is very likely that we have a deviated understanding of this definition.
And this deviation may be the so-called conformity to social expectations, self-expectations, family expectations, and traditional expectations.

But why are these expectations, I would say he is deviating?
In fact, if you also accept these expectations, then it is not necessarily a deviation;
However, if you fail to return to yourself and truly identify with him from the bottom of your heart, it is a deviation.

When we deviate, we will feel that we are not good enough, so we will try our best to make ourselves better;
When we deviate, we will feel that we have to work hard, so we will work hard and not be so contented;
When we deviate, we will feel that we are stupid and stupid, and we can't do anything well;
When we deviate, we will feel why we have so many emotions and low tides;
When we deviate, we will feel why we can't keep the person we love deeply.

But if, these deviations are not deviations, but the way you are, can you still accept yourself like this?
Do you still love yourself? Do you still think you are the best and most beautiful person?
Do you still see your best abilities?
Can you still remember the things you love the most, want to do, and do the most in your life?
Or, will you be afraid that others will not love you because of this?

If we don’t fall in love with who we “think not so good” first, then we can’t fall in love well with someone else, and we can’t accept someone else to fall in love with someone who isn’t us.
Then, jealousy, speculation, confusion, powerlessness, loss, resentment, and resentment will accompany, and at that time, I hate myself the most.

How can others fall in love with you when you hate and don't accept yourself so much?

Go back to yourself and ask yourself, what a wonderful person am I?
That answer is the most acceptable and true definition of yourself.

Then go live your own beauty, fall in love with your own beauty,
Relatively, others will want to be with you more, and it will be so beautiful.

bless.