The problems in life, whose problems?

On the road of self-improvement, for more than 20 years, watching different beings come in and out, some people leave happily, some people leave lonely, it is true Walked a life course.

Recalling that when life first arrived, there were always problems that could not be solved in life, and I hoped to find solutions along the way. After carefully understanding each person's problems and expectations, the most common thing I heard was "How can I change someone." people”, or “It’s because of someone that I’m like this”, but they don’t know that the root cause of all problems comes from oneself.

Self-improvement is one of the core ideas on the road of growth. Improving ourselves and then influencing others is the fundamental way to solve problems. After all, the scope of our jurisdiction is only limited to ourselves. This is a simple concept, but The education of Chinese society has always taught us that we need to be responsible for other people, that is, we need to take care of the other half, we need to take care of children, even our friends and subordinates... This is beyond our proper jurisdiction. If you can't control it, it becomes a frequent thing in life, and it also affects your emotions and relationships, and begins to leave a hard journey in your life.

"Calm down and look at yourself and take care of yourself", how many people have never done such a thing in their entire lives, what a pity, the self who should be the closest, turns out to be the farthest away. There are many, if every life is willing to re-examine the problem, bring the problem back to itself, and start from self-improvement, all difficulties in life will be solved, and a new vision of life will be ushered in.