"Little Broken Thoughts" Every mother is a Wonder Woman

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After a deep chat with my mother two days ago,
I just found out that before my mother got married,
Also a girl without taboos,
just like me,
But now I am not a girl, but a woman.

After she married my dad,
Just started following my grandma,
Learned a whole set of customs and cultures passed down from ancestors to the present day.
I'm surprised,
I didn't expect my mother to have this past too.

All along, I have not paid special attention to these traditional customs,
Even the process of burning incense and saying goodbye,
I can't figure out the situation either.
Although my mother has guided many times,
I still don't get it in my head.

I thought it was nothing,
But because of the conflict two days ago,
Mom just realized that I don't know anything,
In particular, it explained the process after participating in the farewell ceremony.
He also said that these customs were passed down from the generation of grandpa and grandma.
Nature has its reason,
I hope I can remember it well in the future,
Not only can you protect yourself, you can also protect your family.

At this moment, I just found out,
It turns out that my mother also has a very important task.
That is to pass on these customs to our generation.
I used to be very rebellious,
After understanding the meaning behind the whole thing,
He also silently opened his ears and head,
Remember everything your mother said.

Before, when my mother was pregnant with me,
Dad works in the north,
Because it is the first child,
So one month before production,
Mom came to the in-laws' house in the middle of the country alone,
in order to take care of each other.

Even if my mother has a big belly,
Also help with household chores.
Until the day when my mother went to the toilet like crazy,
I just realized I might be giving birth soon.
Grandma hurriedly took her mother to take the bus to the city hospital,
I didn't expect the bus to come late.
Later, the neighbors found out why they were still waiting for the bus,
Only then did I urgently drive my mother and grandma to the hospital.
Thank you so much for that kind man,
Otherwise I should have been born at the bus stop!

I heard these stories at the time,
I simply admire my mother!
are almost born,
I have to be alone at my in-laws' house to give birth.
No matter how you think about it, the pressure is overwhelming.
My stomach hurts so much.
I had to wait for the bus to go to the hospital to give birth.

Perhaps, in previous years,
These are all taken for granted.
If I were in the same situation,
I definitely don't have the toughness and strength of my mother!

in my mind,
Mom is a Wonder Woman,
Whether it is childbearing, parenting, parent-in-law relationship, customs inheritance, housekeeping, cooking and other fields,
have to do it all,
Just thinking about it makes me admire it!

Having said that,
I also admire those women who are married women. In my opinion, you are all equally amazing! !



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