[Reading experience] What is left after leaving - the meaning of life learned by the relic organizer from the back of the deceased

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#Author: Jin Xibie
#Publisher: Shangzhou Publishing

Received e-newsletters these days to see the promotion of the new book "Exploiting Seoul":
" It was only after I arrived in Seoul that I realized that the sunshine had to be bought with extra money ."
Suddenly I remembered some of the experiences I had while reading the book. It's really in line with what the book " An Addict's Interpretation " says,

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When I saw a reader recommending books according to their occupational categories, I picked out the book " The Things Left After Leaving - The Meaning of Life Learned by the Relic Organizer from the Backs of the Dead ". I thought it was written by a Taiwanese writer and senior brother. Receivers are similar: Telling the social story behind the corpse.

But South Korean relic organizers work more broadly. They may not directly deal with the remains, but they need to clean up the traces left by the deceased. Whether it is a scene of lonely death, suicide, or criminal death, it cannot be easily dealt with by ordinary detergents and bleaches, because of the smell, Organic acids and corrupt substances will penetrate into the bedding, clothing, furniture, wallpaper, floors, floor coatings, cement floors, etc. in the room. If the source of the smell is not completely removed, the whole room may no longer be able to live well.

Relic cleaners will also assist the family of the deceased in sorting out the relics. After all, the process of sorting out the deceased by the family may always remember the past of the deceased, which makes the sorting work more difficult.

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In Netflix's "The Magic of Tidying Up Your Life" series, Marie Kondo has a suggestion: Be sure to save the most tangled part of your relationship until the end, especially the relics of relatives and friends, otherwise the work of sorting may be delayed until almost cannot be done.
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In this way, the Relic Cleaner should be an existence that everyone should be very grateful for!
But it’s not true in Korea. In addition to enduring the cynicism of others, not letting them eat in the restaurant, sprinkling salt in front of them, or all kinds of ostracizing behavior, the neighbors don’t like to be neighbors with them, so they have to constantly If you move, you can't stay in one place for long.

There is a story in the book that really impressed me...

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A seriously ill grandmother didn't want to die in her son's house, fearing that it would be a burden for her son, so she insisted on going out to find a house, and passed away not long after she moved out. The relic organizer was invited to assist the landlord in disposing of the house, and the landlord's grandfather said to the relic organizer about the grandmother...

"At that time, I thought to myself how could there be an old grandma who came to see the house alone, and she was a clean and beautiful grandma. She signed the contract on the day she came to see the house, and when she moved in a few days later, I went to see how she was doing in the afternoon. At that time, the old grandmother asked me quietly: "Grandpa, I'm getting old, maybe I will go to another world soon... Can I die here?"
We are the same old people. Whether it's in the present tense or in the future, I hope it's best to walk in my sleep, right? So I didn't think much about it at the time, and just answered " it's okay ". But I didn't expect her to go so fast..."
Until the landlord's grandfather left the house, he kept saying " I already promised to say it's fine !..."
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I burst into tears after watching it....
I feel sorry for the old grandmother, and I also feel that the old grandmother is lucky to meet a good-talking grandpa!
At the moment, I really thought that this was a special Korean sentiment.

Until, in order to change my mood, I had to start listening to the podcast of Stock Cancer , while reading the book " Get Rich Slowly ", and God received a message from the podcast and the book simultaneously, whether it is Taiwan or the United States, there is a common phenomenon. " Landlords do not like to rent to the elderly " phenomenon. A similar situation was even described in detail in another book by Taiwanese author Shi Shenghui's " Zero-Based Buddhist Financial Management " that I read the next day.

It was really shocking right now !

Financial management and buying a house should be done while you are young, lest you can’t rent a house when you are old. Whether it is in Taiwan or the United States, there is a common phenomenon that “ landlords don’t like renting to the elderly ”

Next, the books and podcasts that were going on at the same time were synchronized to another financial management concept.

" Because you may die unexpectedly, you should first let your trusted relatives and friends know about your account investment , etc. or entrust a professional lawyer . After all, it is unknown who will come first tomorrow or impermanence . "

Relic organizers often encounter old people who have passed away and try their best to hide their money in a secret place to avoid theft.

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It is also mentioned in the book " Things Left Behind After Leaving ":

In Korea, "lonely death" is no longer a problem for lonely elderly people. Because local welfare halls or residential centers have implemented care services, the number of single elderly deaths has decreased. The problem now lies in the lonely deaths of young people. And they usually live in K's study, or in the "semi-basement" that appeared in the movie "Parasitic High". Even after death, the odor has wafted out, and the surrounding neighbors may just close the doors and windows indifferently, spray more aromatics to cover up the smell, and pretend that there is no such thing.

This indifference is scarier than a ghost

Therefore, when the relic organizer had the opportunity to go on TV to describe the nature of his work, he kept calling on everyone.

Give the people around you 30 seconds of caring every day <br class="smart">Our little caring can be a powerful force in someone's life .
To regain the life that I wanted to give up, as a strong rope that can make it reborn.

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Facing many suicide cases, the relic organizer also shared with you:

"Pain" must be lived to experience, and "happiness" must be lived to be tasted. Therefore, whether it is pain or happiness, it is my testimony that I am alive and not dying.

Life can't be all happiness, and it can't be all pain, but we just want to go to one of them. When happiness comes, I take it for granted, so I can't feel it as "happiness"; pain is seen as not in my original life, so when I encounter it, I will complain about "why happened to me", and even hurt myself pessimistically .

Pain is like a fixed monthly rent, but there is actually more happiness that comes to us, but we take it for granted and don’t notice it.

To live is a miracle worthy of blessing. My existence is the most special event since the formation of the universe, and once I was born, I was already a chosen being.

The sentence "want to die" in turn means " don't want to live so painfully ", in other words, " want to live well ", so we should use the phrase "want to die" as "hope to live well" replace.

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At this moment, the podcast of listening to the review also just called:

"Everyone's achievements should be told by the people closest to you.
Sometimes we will encounter setbacks and feel sad or unthinkable, and even doubt ourselves and lose confidence. This is because I seek too much, but life is full of surprises! How to adjust and face the next challenge is the most important issue in life.
We will encounter a lot of good things and a lot of bad things, and if we keep working hard, we will not necessarily bear fruit and become a " successful person " in the eyes of the world, because it depends on the right time, place, and people 's talents.
But you may be a successful person in the eyes of your parents and they are proud of you; you may also be a successful person in the eyes of your husband (in-law) because you love the family ; then you are more likely to be a hero in the eyes of your children, Because you hold up this family ; or you are simply " God " in the eyes of your pets, He just sees you every day and thinks this is the most beautiful thing in the world ....

These are the meanings of our lives !

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⭐Book Links⭐
💒What's left after leaving :
KOBO eBook link: https://r10.to/hVl96e
Readmoo eBook link: http://moo.im/a/9bsuwG
(Please give this book a chance 🙏🙏🙏 it's really nice)
📚 📚Blog to paper book link 📚 📚

💒Taiwanese writer-Master's works (related industries)
-Hello, I'm the picker :
Readmoo eBook link: http://moo.im/a/5cqwFQ
📚 📚Blog to paper book link 📚 📚

- Sadder than a period :
Readmoo eBook link: http://moo.im/a/2cryNP
(The tone of the villagers helps people to get a closer understanding of the history of heartache, blood and tears in this industry, and then pair it with Maixiang to read the book XD) 📚 📚The blog comes to the paper book link 📚 📚

⭐Other Books⭐
💒Exploiting Seoul :
KOBO eBook link: https://r10.to/hwsmAU
Readmoo eBook link: http://moo.im/a/1hGQSY

💒Interpretation for reading addicts :
KOBO eBook link: https://r10.to/hV5wWb
Readmoo eBook link: http://moo.im/a/dfhRSU
(This book is super interesting. People who love to read or collect books will definitely enjoy reading it. There are also many recommended books in it, all of which are very good books in Taiwan.)

💒Get Rich Slowly :
KOBO eBook link: https://r10.to/hVuo8H
Readmoo eBook link: http://moo.im/a/imsDGU
(Wealth is not just financial management, but also the whole life planning!)
📚 📚Blog to paper book link 📚 📚

💒Zero -based Buddhist financial management techniques :
KOBO eBook link: https://r10.to/hVLZTW
Readmoo eBook link: http://moo.im/a/38jrsF
(Shi Shenghui's 0050 no "annoyance" financial management method)
📚 📚Blog to paper book link 📚 📚

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