can catch your girlfriend

"Catch" is an important repair key in negative emotions. When someone catches their own sorrows and joys, it is like a bottle of water in the desert, a road in the wilderness. And being able to be caught means that you are happy, because someone understands you/you, and someone cares about you/you.

I'm still chasing "Twenty Do Not Confused" these days, and now I'm chasing the second season. In one of the episodes, Liang Shuang, one of the protagonists in the play, had a turmoil caused by her words, which was reported on the Internet and caused a lot of uproar. It was all her negative news, which caused her to be terminated by the company (she is the host of the live broadcast). At this time, the watch, care and love of her girlfriends caught her depression and lost her emotions, and it was also one of the strengths of her redemption. These good friends caught her helpless and sad heart and gave her a good place to put her heart. Even if the outside world collapsed, her inner heart was covered with the greatest satisfaction and safety. The recovery of emotions in the future holds a great weight.

When I was depressed in the first two years and then encountered menopause, no one was catching my emotions in time, which made me feel lost for a long time, and I had no way to get out of it. It was really painful. So looking at the matter of "catching" is more empathetic.

It is a rare happiness in the world to have such friends who can catch me. This is also an indispensable confidant in life. I can't help asking myself, do I have it?

Whenever I see such a close girlfriend, I always sigh and envy. In fact, although I also have so-called girlfriends, there are still many things that I don't want to tell her, perhaps because of my self-esteem, for fear of being laughed at, or I think too much, I always distinguish what to say and what to hide, but these practices are not the best definition for the word "girlfriend". Since I am a girlfriend, it means that I can talk about everything and say everything, but I missed the opportunity to be more frank with my girlfriend.

I remember that some of their good friends in the play also chose not to say the most heavy things in their hearts because they were afraid of putting pressure and worry on each other, but this would make the distance between her and these good friends more and more Fortunately, their relationship is strong enough, and they know how to brake in time. At the best time, they confess to each other, so that the misunderstanding between them can be eliminated. It is precisely because they trust each other and understand each other that they will soon be able to regain their former emotions.

Maybe I should really learn the way in the play, otherwise the so-called girlfriends in my mouth are actually no different from ordinary friends.