【Self-growth】How to find your own life direction

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Today I want to share how to find our own life direction. Since childhood, we may all live in the life trajectory expected by our parents and society, but we are always confused and hazy about how to find our own life direction. This article will describe the difficulties faced in the growth process, and then the methods and strategies that can be dealt with.

Since childhood, we have always been taught to study hard and take exams. When we were in middle school, we always heard that we would be free if we were admitted to a first-class high school. When we were promoted to high school, we were told to study hard and be admitted to a good university. We are free. In the rounds of scams, we have never seriously thought about what we want and what kind of dreams do we have? How would you like to practice? What path do you want to take? Never thought about it.

When I went to college, I was accused of not being able to express myself, not being good at teamwork, not experiencing career exploration, not having dreams, and not having plans for the future. It will be learned naturally, without guidance or support, as if all this will be learned automatically without knowing it.

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I can write this article, and I also hope that I will not be like me. After I left school and entered the workplace, I began to seriously think about my goals and dreams, and blindly studied and crammed education. Although I got a good diploma, but in addition to In addition to the grades, I realized that my life was nothing at all.

Although it is never too late to start exploring one's own life direction no matter when, even Confucius "stands in his thirties". The goal is no longer confused. It is not until the age of fifty that he truly knows his destiny. As an ordinary person, it is normal to feel confused and confused when he is young.

When looking for your own life direction, it is more useful to actually try and act than to imagine it in your mind. Fantasy will have too many beautiful imaginations for the future, and there may be many unrealistic or deviated ideas from reality. Before actually taking action, you can write it down with pen and paper, or draw a pattern. It does not have to be a very clear and clear idea. You can find your own life direction by gradually focusing on many complicated thoughts.

【Self-growth】As long as you change your relationship with yourself, the external world will change accordingly

【Self-growth】Practice to get along well with yourself

【Self-growth】Reduce negative noise and enhance positive signals

【Self-growth】The ideal life you look forward to is now

【Self-growth】The growth code to realize your dreams

【Self-growth】Listen to the voice of your heart

Don't care about the right or wrong of each goal, follow your own intuition, write down or draw all the things that come to mind, and then classify these goals or imaginations into categories, if there are twenty or thirty, it can be roughly divided into four , five major categories, and thinking about the relationship between these categories, or the relationship between yourself and these categories, it is easy to find a guide or direction that suits you.

Finally, even if you are facing a high degree of academic pressure in the process of growing up, but you lack opportunities for self-exploration and career planning, but at least you know that you should think about your life direction, what kind of life you want to live, and pay more attention to your daily life. As long as you have such a problem awareness, I believe you can learn more about your possible direction, and when the opportunity comes, you can grasp and achieve yourself in time.