sign? Don't sign? It is said to be the tenth level on the International Loneliness Scale

"Ah, it hurts..." When I raised my right hand unconsciously, the faint pain came again. I went to the bathroom mirror to check it as usual, and felt that "it" seemed to be more swollen. The pain is endless.

When I first noticed the existence of "it" in my impression, it was still a small bean-like object, no matter how I squeezed/squeezed/pinched it, I just thought "what is this?" Take it into consideration. However, as the days go by, instead of disappearing as expected, it grows bigger and bigger like dough fermented after fermentation; when the body is still, they can still be at peace with each other, but when the hands are raised or stretched, they are It was like sending out a protest message, and there was a feeling of pain.

"It's a small cyst, but it is recommended to surgically remove it for a radical cure...", listening to the doctor's remarks, even if he had searched for possible pathological information on the Internet earlier based on his own symptoms, Still being "shocked", only the former (cyst) was guessed correctly, and the latter (operation) was unexpected.

Although it was unexpected, after the doctor's explanation was completed, he raised his own questions, and the doctor cleared up the doubts. He didn't think much about it, nor did he discuss it with others. He decided to agree to the operation on his own, and decided the date of the operation with the doctor and proceeded with follow-up matters. arrange.

And when the date of surgery is confirmed, the doctor will hand over the "surgery consent form" to the front of his eyes, one by one for (1) the surgery to be performed: the name of the disease, the name of the proposed surgery, the reason, (2) the doctor's statement: ...has been Try to explain the relevant information of the operation in a way that the patient can understand... After explaining the contents in detail, when I was ready to sign, my heart that I thought was firm began to shake slightly, and it was only then that I definitely felt "consent to the operation". The weight of these few words should not be regarded as open-hearted remarks that can be said arbitrarily.

For example, the "Physician's Statement" mentions that (1) surgical complications and possible treatment methods have been explained to the patient, (2) temporary or permanent symptoms that may occur after the operation are expected; Various possibilities have been asked, but that "just in case" is a guarantee that no one can give .

After hesitating for a moment, he re-examined the contents of the "Consent Form for Surgery" (3) The patient's statement . Under the sentence "Based on the above statement, I agree to perform this surgery", the person who signed the consent signed his own. first name .

Because he felt that it was a minor operation, he went through the admission procedures alone and went through the discharge procedures alone. From the beginning to the end, he did not mention the operation to his family and others, and only a few friends knew about it; In retrospect, the so-called "reporting good news but not worrying, saying it can't change anything, but makes people worry" and so on, is actually just another manifestation of "selfishness"/irresponsibility. One", I'm afraid I can't regret it.

"In the future, please put away the unnecessary inner theater of "not disturbing is my tenderness". This situation does not apply. Don't let the "gentleness" you think is a prelude to "regret". It is after this experience. Small understanding.

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