[Self-Growth] The more you fear, the more likely it will happen: Could it be the Law of Attraction and the Law of Attraction

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Today I want to talk about Murphy's Law, that is, the more you don't want to happen, the more you don't want to face, the more likely it will happen, why does this happen, and how to overcome it Such a dilemma.

Why this phenomenon of Murphy’s Law occurs can actually be discussed in-depth from the physiological and psychological levels. Constantly sticking to negative thoughts or miserable situations, it is easy to psychologically affect the body, and unconsciously put yourself into negative emotional situations. And immersed in pessimism, I feel that I am so unfortunate, and the result of escaping is the result that I least want to encounter.

Rather than scolding the law of non-existence, it simply believes that it is confirmation bias, it is just the situation that you least want to face, or the worst plan you have ever thought about, so that you are impressed, and then when you summarize , feeling that something bad happens every time you think about it, leading to false feelings.

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But in real life, there are indeed many pessimistic events that are more likely to occur under negative emotions, especially the situation in which the reality will happen no matter what you think in your mind. In discussing why this phenomenon occurs, it can be explained in conjunction with the "law of attraction".

The so-called Law of Attraction also emphasizes that negative thoughts will bring bad events, but compared to the Law of May, the Law of Attraction also believes that as long as you hold positive thoughts, you can bring good results, although "I don't want to go bankrupt" and "I don't want to get divorced" are thinking in my mind, which may seem like positive thoughts, but the universe will only receive bankruptcy, divorce, and bring such results to you.

Then we can get into the issue of how to overcome this dilemma, instead of immersing ourselves in negative emotions, constantly fantasizing about tragic situations, and even making these tragedies a reality. It is better to use the concept of the Law of Attraction, positive thinking and prayer, to bring good things to the front. Don't think about bankruptcy or divorce, but think about making a lot of money and a happy marriage, and facing the current situation with a positive attitude. There are relationships, and the universe can bring those relationships to you.

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Of course, this does not mean that anything can be achieved as long as it is fantasized. It is also to do everything possible to work hard towards an ideal life. It is just that in terms of mood and attitude, don’t be too pessimistic and limit yourself to negative emotions, worrying about the worst outcome. What to do if it happens, don't expect the occurrence of the law, but be full of positive emotions such as gratitude, and God will bring you to the most suitable position.

Just like Rhonda. Byrne once revealed in the book "Secrets" the magic of the law of attraction, and the great achievements that positive emotions full of love and gratitude can actually produce. As long as the mentality changes, the world you see is different, and the energy you receive is also different, and you are no longer trapped in negative emotions, and the more you are afraid, the less likely it will happen.