When you feel lost before the age of 30, please watch this

I heard that people who know the piano will have a temperament, and they can also earn some pocket money for private teaching.

i want to learn piano

I heard that people who can make up make people feel refreshed, and learning make-up makes people make up, which is another sideline income.

i want to learn makeup

I heard that people who can speak multiple languages get promoted faster.

I want to learn a new language

You also learn this and do that, like enriching, but the result is half a bucket of water, you feel helpless,

How come nothing can be done?

I once heard a story, the story of a silly donkey

In front of the donkey, there is a pile of hay on the left and a bucket of water on the right. The donkey is hungry and thirsty. Well, looking at the bucket of water on the right, I feel very hungry again, let's eat first!

keep looking left and right

This donkey is so confused, should he eat grass or drink water first?

The story ends with the donkey dead

The cause of death was thirst and starvation!

You think it's funny, why don't you choose one first? In fact, in reality, we are not like donkeys, we want to try all kinds of things, especially in the first few years after graduation, when we were 20 to 30 years old, we always I thought that ten years was a long time, and I could do a lot of things and have a lot of time! I wanted to do a lot of things but couldn't do it well, and I couldn't do the last thing well.

 I want to do everything, I can't do everything

When we can't see the results and the time and energy are exhausted, we feel confused. This is also the reason why new people in the society are full of enthusiasm when they leave the society. Three minutes of enthusiasm makes him quickly feel confused about his own life.

Confusion is not that you don't know what to do

It is more that you feel confused about the gap between ideal and actual you

Instead of doing eight, it's better to focus on one big goal and focus your energy, physical strength and time on this one thing

In <<the one thing>> this book mentions the power of focusing on one thing, the focus is not scattered, the power and results are infinite

We should first choose one thing that we want to learn and do, divide it according to the importance and urgency, and choose the most important and not urgent item.

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Every night before going to bed, watch tomorrow to do something related to this matter, and let yourself improve by 1% in this matter every day, the magic and inspirational number of compound interest effect is 1, take 1 as yourself, after 1 year and 365 days, you will be greater than 1 (progress), 1 (stand still, less than 1 (step back)

1.01 to the 365th power = 37.7 >>> 1

0.99 to the 365th power = 0.02551796445229 <<< 1

1% study hard every day for 1 year, and you will improve 37% in 1 year!

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Record the number of yourself doing this thing, so that you can better understand the current progress and what you have missed!

The human brain is not good at memorizing and thinking. If we do it ourselves and don’t remember it, we will not be able to remember whether we have done it for a long time.

Counter-check the clues of success and failure of a small goal

It is not difficult to finish one thing and learn one thing, but to be the best requires patience and constant thinking. From the records and walks, you can see those who do well and those who do not, magnify the good ones, and do Only bad deletion can promote the success of the goal.

I have seen a youtuber pruning a small flower in the video. In this flower pot, some of the leaves on the stems of the small branches are about to wither. Usually, we wait for it to wither and fall, and we will not pull it, but this youtuber is Cut the trunk directly with scissors. His explanation is that these rapidly withering leaves will spread toxins, erode soil nutrients, and make green branches lack nutrients. In this case, either all flowers are destroyed, or the bad ones are removed. Of course, you will choose wisely. The latter, cut out the bad ones, but in fact, most people don't want to face up to the bad things, and continue to do things in ways that hinder your progress, because you know those ways, and you don't want to change them.

Focusing on doing one thing well is more difficult than doing everything else . The difficulty lies in your determination to endure the dullness of constantly doing one thing, and the fact that you have been learning the facts that you have not yet mastered in your posture.

 Focus is harder and more valuable than distraction!

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