Don't rush to use the results to evaluate your child

Use the results in a hurry to evaluate your child

"Among all the people who participated in the selection competition, you are the player who has lost the most times. You have accumulated layers of ladders with the experience of losing. Think about it now that your ladder is the highest, you will slowly Go up and get what you want!" —— Twenty-five twenty-one youth warm-hearted inspirational lines.

Yesterday, Brother Stone was on his way to work and broadcast a great story from the radio station. I recorded it and shared it with you~ my friends!

He recounted that a child answered on the exam paper given by the math teacher during the math test.
1+1=? He writes 1
1+2=? He still writes 1
3+4=? He writes 1 again
5+7=? He still writes 1

The teacher was very worried, thinking that there must be something wrong with the child's head, and quickly ran to the principal for help.
🎯 At this moment, the teacher did a great deal instead of taunting.

The principal looked at the test paper and was quite surprised, but he calmed down immediately and asked the teacher what is the child's specialty? The teacher replied: painting.

So the principal and the teacher invited the children to the principal's office.
The principal bent down and touched the child's head, and said, "The teacher told me that your painting is quite wonderful. It's great."

We also found your math answers special. Can you tell us how you came up with such a particular answer?

🎯 At this moment, the principal also had a great conversation!

He replied:
✅ One day + one night = one day ✅ One month + two months = one season ✅ Three days + four days = one week ✅ Five months + seven months = one year

The principal and teachers were very surprised by the children's answers. They did not use the results to blame the children. Instead, they relied on admiration to persuade them to understand the way of thinking behind the children's answers. Therefore, they created a great mathematician who loves to draw.

🎯 Hearing this, I am very impressed with the way the teachers and principals handled it: encouraging, admiring, not blaming!

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I remember that when my nephew was a child, the exam question asked: There are 10 apples on the table, the elder sister ate one, and the younger brother took two. How many apples are left on the table?
My simple and honest nephew wrote: Zero....
God~ is he stupid?
No, he said: Mom always said that you can't put food on the table; so of course the leftover apples should be put in the refrigerator. Where are the leftover apples on the table?
Why! I am also quite speechless. I don’t want to worry about the failure of the child again and again. All the failures will accumulate and become a ladder to success. If you always look at the problem in such a positive way, you will stimulate your child’s potential. .

Dear friend, if this case happened to you, how would you deal with it? I would like to share it with my good friends and wish you all great mothers~

Happy Mothers' Day!

🍁 I am willing to "A Cup of Coffee for Public Welfare" to support Brother Stone!

🔥Follow up, everyone secretly learned workplace skills, how many did you miss?

1. Stop and review | Let you in 5 years, thank you for being serious today!

2. Stop and review | Occasional slashes make life more exciting!

3. Potato's creation | How to polish "Your Brand", run fast, and iterate quickly?

4. In the career, these three kinds of nobles are indispensable

5. Spend 7 days of continuous practice, at least let the "mediocre" be one step away from you!