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relative value of love

This article is not a math question, so there is no need to calculate how many I have or how many years my husband and I have been in love.

I was watching different dramas earlier, and the same concept came up invariably: It's been a year, why do children think a year is very long, but adults think a year goes by in the blink of an eye?

The passage of time is definitely the same, but the perception of time is relative. Calculated as a percentage, one year for a five-year-old child is equivalent to 20% of their life, while for a sixty-year-old person, one year is equivalent to 20% of their life. Only 2% of life.

I suddenly mentioned this concept because another year has passed since my husband and I fell in love. The celebration last year seemed to have happened two months earlier, and it has suddenly been a year. We have reached the age where we are no longer afraid of growing old. Anyway, we will grow old together. Although we will feel reluctant to let go, why does time fly by so fast? I always feel that the time for love is not enough. No matter how many years go by, it still feels not enough.

Days pass by, and time in love accumulates day by day. So the days when we were in love accounted for 60% of my life, 20% more than the days when I was single, and this year only accounted for 3.7% of the time when we were in love. Wow, so little, no wonder we always I think it’s not enough, so next year it will be even shorter.

Some people may question how it is possible to still feel in love after being together for so long. But everyone should believe that love can last forever, why not? You are together because you are in love, how can you let life wear away the feeling of being in love? (Okay, what I’m talking about here is falling in love with the right person. If you fall in love with the wrong person, you still have to get rid of it as soon as possible. Love relationships should be pleasant, not letting yourself fall into pain)

We can't love each other for ten thousand years, because we can't live that long, so let's start towards the progress of loving each other for one year = 1.25%. At that time, every year will fly by, and the children will have their own families and lives. From noisy to calm, just the two of us, even if we are not in love, we can still carry the romance to the end.

In this way, every year today, we will remember how we decided to enter a relationship hand in hand and decide to be in love for a lifetime.


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