Community Events/I Want to Be My Son's Day

In fact, the idea of wanting to have children was very selfish at first. I just wanted to know what kind of person has a blood relationship with me. Does he look like me? Can he be proof of my existence?

I once had the fantasy that he was smart and smart when he was a child, and when he grew up, he was excellent in homework and sports. He was a kid who could show off to my neighbors. In the future, he would become tall and handsome, and then he would go shopping with his mother and be praised by others. , your son is really filial.

When I was really pregnant, after more than nine months of pregnancy, after working hard for more than two hours, it was the first time I saw an unknown creature wrinkled and red, and the only thought in my heart was the word "so tired".

Breastfeeding for the first time, I realized what people say about urinating, watching him crawling, watching him walk, watching him go from babbling to negotiating bedtime in fluent Chinese.

I know that he is my child, and at the same time, he is also the master of his own life, and I try my best not to put my fantasies, delusions, and dreams on him.

But I occasionally think about how to treat my child, which is the "correct" way of parenting. If I can become him, will I know how I want to be treated?

If one day, I can become a son, I can know what he likes and what he doesn't like. Although it is too early to talk about future aspirations to a six-year-old child, if I can try to find what I like and be good at first , Is it possible to take less detours, and to be able to do things you like since childhood is also a very happy thing.

If I become a son, I would also like to experience innocent happiness again. I am curious about everything. I can repeatedly observe the direction of the ants, and I keep dancing the same dance steps from day to day. Go to work and find something different to have fun.

If I become my son, I will become everyone's darling. As the youngest child on both sides of the family, it is easy to get the love of adults, and I will be praised by every move I make, so cute and awesome, no one will disagree A six-year-old child has too many expectations, so he can be himself and be praised. This is a feeling that I have forgotten as an adult for a long time.

If one day, I really become my son, what would I most want to do?

Maybe she was holding and acting coquettishly for grandma. These are things that I have always missed, but I am ashamed to do when I grow up. No matter how old I become, in my mother's arms, I am a real child.