The elders like to talk about old things, how do you deal with it?

Parents like to talk about everything they have experienced in the past, such as when they entered into marriage, when they were young, when they were young, when they were in the army, when they were studying, when they worked hard, etc. Every time they started, they knew the end of the matter.

Sometimes I see them talking very vigorously, and I have the illusion that I have never told them? The same thing can be described in detail, and the hands and face are performed in a timely manner to add a sense of context to make this awkward chat more interesting, at least my parents think so.

The relatives next to me, I don't know if they are related to the same attributes, are also many of these people who like to take out cold rice and stir fry it. Especially during the Chinese New Year, the elders want to integrate into the young people, but they don't understand what they are talking about, and the elders also want to take the lead in the speech. Be able to mingle with juniors and increase feelings.

An interesting contrast between old things and awkward chats

"The elders are so high, the juniors are so annoying"

I've been used to it for a long time. In the face of such a situation, I will respond to the ball in a timely manner and echo them, ask questions, echo words, um, ah, this, etc., and let them know that you are listening, so they can do the things at hand at the same time. , such as swiping the phone, or when I wander off to the horizon, it is hard to notice the elders chatting vigorously.

This way of being polite and making oneself comfortable not only reduces the irritability caused by awkward chats with elders, but also does not reduce the feeling of connection even though there is less communication and resonance.

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