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A wonderful metaphor | The old heart is not old, the bright little sun

I really like a pair of grandparents. The 80-year-old grandfather always has a kind smile like Maitreya Buddha on his face . The relationship is born from the heart. At a glance, we know that he is a diligent, clean, optimistic and cheerful, respected and loved by his family. 's old treasure .

In the grandmother, I felt the breath of happiness . She was well taken care of by the grandfather. She was neatly dressed and had an amiable smile on her face.

The two of them lived in a semi-detached two-storey house. There were two low rattan chairs and a small table in the front yard of the house. There was a large green grass in front of the house that was well taken care of. Grandpa and grandma were sitting on the low rattan chairs, gossiping in front of the green grass, and occasionally saw a lively and cheerful little brother in his teens chatting around them and talking non-stop.

A very happy family, and the members of the family always have happy smiles on their faces.

Later, I learned from my grandfather's daughter that my grandmother suffered from dementia more than ten years ago. For many years, she has relied on the grandfather to take care of the grandmother's daily life by herself.

What I admire most is that the grandfather and grandma live alone because they don’t want to trouble and implicate their children. The children who are married away will bring their children back to their hometown every few days to visit the grandfather and grandma and enjoy the joy of family.

When people are old and retired, it is not about relying on the old and selling the old to stay at home 24 hours a day and waiting for the children to wait for you. If you love your children, you must take care of your own health . Simple exercise and housework will not only keep you healthy, but also make your children feel that you are for the family. pay.

Just like the great old man mentioned in the article, that kind of old-fashioned mentality and outlook on life are worthy of our study and appreciation.



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