si Kaoru | What I want to say to children

🌿Time goes by

Today, I suddenly have a feeling. My aunt, we all call her grandma, she has been away from us for a whole year, and a lot of things have happened this year. It is really uncomfortable to be separated from life and death under the epidemic. I am very afraid of this kind of thing. The scene, but this is life, and everyone will experience it. My mother-in-law suffered a stroke for 16 years. My grandmother, who was in good health at the beginning, said goodbye to this world and entered the western paradise of bliss.

I can't imagine my parents and in-laws leaving me, my state of mind, and the journey of my life, I tell myself to do my best and be worthy of myself. Of course, I am the most worried, and of course children, we sandwich generations, go up There is a high hall, and there are children who are still unable to be independent. The responsibilities are overwhelming, and I feel that there is no breathing space. The health of the elders is really a blessing for children.

🌿Words for children

I wrote a text message to my siblings and told them that I am not the most accomplished and the best mother, but I must be the bravest mother. When I encounter a problem, I will face it, and I will never try to escape. When you encounter a problem, find a way to solve it. Although you are facing a problem, you will definitely have emotions, and you will definitely have moments of depression. Always remember to change your mood and face it. In your blood, there is a mother's brave gene, and you can find your own way. , do not have to be like others.

Now, I have learned to no longer feel that I am not good enough. Letting go can make children grow up. The current cultivation is to reserve energy for the future self and face problems bravely. When you are more forbidden to think about the things you are afraid of and fear It seems that the more you can’t help but feel more fearful or think more, it is an uncontrollable feeling, and this kind of fear makes people more worried and anxious. Under such emotions, it is more difficult for people to make good decisions. With a stable and self-disciplined life, things that you don't want to happen are naturally more likely to happen.

Action will lead you forward, and you will also have the courage to face and overcome difficulties. Life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten. Don't let yourself be sad for too long. You must believe that as long as you are willing to move forward, you can survive the long night and wait until the dawn. moment.