I read @YulinaHuang's "You can't compromise with life without working hard, and the longer you work hard, the less you can't compromise." I was very touched by the "compromise" and decided to recommend it. article to inspire more people.

In life, it seems that everyone has compromised more or less. There are many reasons for compromise. Some are because our parents are good for you, so we give up our favorite majors, and some are because we cater to the values ​​of society, so we dare not live. Create another life you want, and some compromises are simply because you are afraid of stepping out of your comfort zone.

The author said:

Compromise is a terrible thing, because you will get used to it. When you compromise for the first time, you may still feel unwilling. Full of dissatisfaction with life, but unable to change.​

Yes, after we get used to compromise, we are used to giving up our own strength to live again and again. Gradually, we will become less and less aware of how to regain our strength to change. The calm days on the surface become warm water, and We become the stewed frog without knowing it.

In the past days, I felt that compromising the status quo was an easier option, because as long as I listened to what others said and did it, even if the result was unsatisfactory, it could be inferred that it was someone else's decision for me, so it was someone else's fault, and it took a long time. Now, when I got used to compromise, I was happy in the daytime, but when I dreamed back at midnight, there were often pictures of someone chasing after me, as if urging me to make up my mind to accomplish what I wanted to do.

So I decided not to compromise and live the life I wanted.

However, life without compromise is not so easy.

As the author puts it:

Trying hard to pursue the life you really yearn for. It may be painful at first, and you can't see the results. It makes people want to give up all the time. However, you will not live in regret and helplessness. You will be approaching your goal step by step because you are And work harder, more energy, more fighting spirit

When I choose not to compromise, the first thing that waits for me is the kind of fear and fear that comes from my heart. They always try to swallow me further and force me to retreat into the comfort of compromise. The struggle is hard to describe, but it is real. I exist on the ground. Fortunately, the thought of "don't want to regret" helped me overcome the compromise, so if you are experiencing the pain of uncompromising, please don't be afraid, believe me, as long as you start uncompromising, you will be able to find your own It is never too late for the helplessness of strength to change reality.

In fact, uncompromising is like compromise, which can be used to get used to. The difference is that uncompromising allows us to regain control of our lives, while compromise makes us lose our strength. Because I want to have the energy to live my day well, when I face every choice, I will think about whether I make such a decision as a compromise.

Of course, many times I can't tell if I'm compromising. At this time, I always ask myself, if life is just a game, and I don't need to care about any consequences, which way and which copy I want to experience the most, usually They will find the option that makes them uncompromising.

But it doesn't mean that you don't compromise, you need to persist in pain to the end on a certain road, but you have to choose a journey that will make you happy in your heart, because only your happy journey will lead us to a happy result and cater to the happiness of others. journey, and in the end will only live out someone else's life.

I don't know if you are also unhappy with compromise, if this article can enlighten you. Please remember to clap or support for @YulinaHuang's "You can't compromise with life without working hard, and the longer you work hard, the more you can't compromise."