Understanding the Magic of What's on Your Mind: The Manifestation Effect (2)

3. Worthy and Acceptable

Here is divided into two parts, worthy and acceptable. " Worth" is actually believing that we are worth having. To some extent, this is an extension of the first point of focusing on good things . We calm down, reduce self-criticism, and start to become a habit , let calm into life. Naturally, you can gradually stay away from the connection of negative energy, and use a more positive attitude to observe yourself and adjust yourself, which is worth having and becomes an obvious and easy-to-see attitude.

In Designing Happiness actually makes the same argument

Want to produce happiness! Please allocate your attention judiciously!

From a very scientific point of view, the things we focus on will actually affect our inner feelings to a large extent. Whether it is worthwhile or not is not much different from happiness. It is more about the angle we choose to focus on. And born the answer.

 Please be an open receiver and start expanding your self-worth!

Maybe here, you will add that we are indeed worth having, because we are the whole world itself, the whole process is just experience, there is no punishment and unworthy existence ( see About us (1) for details ). But don’t forget, this is not an idea that everyone can establish. After all, everyone’s degree of indulging in the material world is different, and the appropriate path is also different. This is not a point of view that must be established. What's more, to go from understanding this point of view to fully believing in it requires one's own calmness, inspection, and adjustment to fully achieve it. There is no shortcut, but the process is different and looks different.

 When you one day understand that love, belonging, and your worth are birthrights, not something you have to earn, everything is possible.

However, it should be noted that the word "worthy" still has an extreme side. Complete unscrupulousness can still constitute greed. Most greed still comes from a lack of security, although the examples pointed out in the book only cover Excessive narcissists, but they are actually very similar in big and small things, just in different ways.

 An overly narcissist is actually very insecure on the inside, easily swayed by other people's opinions, and lacks self-confidence; this is not a sign of loving oneself. When you cultivate love and the belief that you are worthy from the inside out, you are living your life from your true strength and spiritual essence.

This also highlights the importance of calmness and self-awareness, because under this premise, you can better understand the source of your thoughts and whether you are on the right track, even if you don’t notice it at the beginning, but you have such a mentality , it will be easier to perceive and accept the possibility of change.

"Accept" here means accepting with gratitude. This meaning, from what they say, is due to the fact that the world is full of love and runs with love, and this idea helps the energy flow better and helps manifest.

 You want more good things from the universe, so it is important to accept with love what the universe has given you.

Although such an explanation is not wrong, if a less fantasy explanation is needed, the real purpose is to prevent oneself from becoming arrogant due to the achievements in front of you.

If we take a longer time to observe, looking at our life after life, the experience of the soul, sometimes the suffering we think is actually the beginning of our liberation and going back to the heart; what we thought was happiness, good luck or success, in fact The above is the beginning of our sinking in the material world - About us (11): Walking back to the road of "nothing"

Although the fulfillment of wishes is a good thing, it cannot be called a completely good thing, because behind the realization, there will always be hidden reefs, which may not necessarily be touched, but are still potential dangers. The biggest role of gratitude is also here. When we stand at the highest point, we can maintain a relaxed mind and continue to look at things from a calm perspective. Natural mentality will not collapse because of subsequent losses, nor will it Perched high but twisted inside.

4. Give what you want to receive

The use here is actually the same as grateful acceptance, which also allows us to approach things more inwardly, but this time to ensure that we don't hold on to possession too much

 "Give and take" is a fluid cycle, and if you're an "over-receiver" you might feel guilty, while an "under-receiver" often feels There is resentment. Allow the cycle of giving and taking to flow, so that you gradually become generous with giving and taking.

We will cling to what we have, which actually stems from anxiety. For example, the key to our survival: money, we will have strong anxiety when we lose it, because it may threaten our possibility of survival, and we will tend to So it is used very rarely, but it actually keeps us living with the idea of lack of money, keeps us in the environment of lack, and from the perspective of the soul, this is not an ideal idea. Giving, on the other hand, has become the key to unlocking it, allowing us to get used to the feeling of using it. After using it, the idea of grasping can be gradually erased.

 No one has ever been poor by giving.
──Anne Frank / author of "Anne's Diary"

But just giving is not enough. Giving is just giving to others, but here there is a lack of attention to oneself. Therefore, compared with giving, what is more important is the part that is used, whether it is for yourself or for others.

Of course, in this process, we still have to focus on our own state and thoughts. Are we overdrawing ourselves and forcing ourselves? Whether it is what you really want, this again corresponds to the point of focusing on beautiful things , because these are the answers that can only be obtained in peace

 I'm giving in the way I want to receive it, not out of obligation, not overdrawing my money, and not because of a mentality of "I've given a lot, it's not bad." The way I give is to enrich myself and others, and this will attract more good things into our lives. I made the act of giving a fun and creative journey, and in doing so, improved my life far more than the person who received my kindness.

(to be continued)

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