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A Rational View of the "Black Hat Gate" Incident in which Married Women in Chengdu Had In-depth Communication with Black People: Fascinating Black Women, Open Marriage and Legal Responsibility
Reason is the compass, but desire is the storm. ——Pop
One melon is not settled, another melon rises again. A few days ago, Brother Tutu just talked about "IKEA ZW door", and today there is another "Black Hat door"...
A netizen contributed an article saying that after a married woman had an in-depth exchange with a black man, she was put on the P station by the black man, and her name and indecent video were published, and she was tied with a dog chain.
A video showed that the woman said in English, "I want you fuck me!" while blowing to black people on the stairs, and there was also the sound of reading aloud in the video.
Sadly, in addition to the video of her panting under a black man, there are also photos of her and her husband's wedding dress being uploaded by black people to the P station.
Netizens broke the news: the heroine Ms. Wu is the company's English receptionist, and the cheating brother is the so-called football coach; Ms. Wu once studied at Sichuan City Vocational College and won the second prize for English writing. In the video (proficient use of vocabulary please fuck me) .
Out of consideration for other people's privacy, I will not put the name here, and respect her privacy a little.
After the incident fermented, many netizens committed human flesh, many sympathized with her husband, and some initiated a report.
Some netizens expressed the hope that this big brother who has been cheated on can find out the truth as soon as possible and stay away from the "black girl".
In fact, personal information and background are not important anymore, the key is the social and legal issues reflected in this incident.
1. "Fawning on black" is not a crime
First of all, Brother Tou doesn't like the label "black girl". It is an individual's right to flirt with blacks or not, to find blacks, whites, or yellows.
It's just that Ms. Wu's matter just happened to be at the critical moment when "the glass hearts of Chinese people have been broken all over the place". There was the "student buddy" incident at Shandong University before, and later there was a revision of the permanent residence regulations for foreigners.
In fact, birth, old age, sickness and death are the samsara of life, and no one can escape. Emotional communication and hormonal desires are what a normal person should have. Why is the release of physiological needs viewed with colored eyes by everyone? Where does such colored eyes come from? ?
It is understandable for a normal person to find a way to relieve his desires when he is in the prime of his youth, when his blood is full and his hormones are relatively high. Because this is a human desire, whether it is a man or a woman, there will be hormonal desires, and it is very normal.
Ms. Wu "often shoots various romance films and SM dog chain plots with black ghosts and white skins", this may be her personal hobby and choice, as long as she is voluntary, self-entertaining, and does not upload to the Internet for profit, no one else will Talk too much.
But Ms. Wu's situation seems to be special, please continue to read below.
2. Derailment within marriage should be condemned
What is special about this matter is that Ms. Wu is married.
Although, having sex within a marriage with the consent of a man and a woman is an affair, and in this case it is neither illegal nor a crime.
However, the "Marriage Law" stipulates that both husband and wife have a duty of fidelity to each other, so adultery is definitely a violation of the Marriage Law, but the law does not have rigid sanctions for this kind of behavior, but restricts it through morality.
Love does not come first, first come first, but there is courtesy, righteousness and shame. The law is above morality, but the virtues that have been handed down in China for thousands of years are not easily trampled on.
3. Do not rule out the possibility of "open marriage"
Ms. Wu cheated in marriage, and it seems that her husband is the biggest victim. Indeed, if her husband doesn't know and doesn't agree.
But there is also a possibility: open marriage. That is, the wife's sexual behavior with others is the husband's knowledge and consent.
Don't you think it's weird? But in life, open marriages do exist, especially in the West and domestic first- and second-tier cities, it should be said that it is not uncommon.
An open marriage is a casual way of life adopted by the husband and wife after marriage, that is, the sex life is free and does not restrain each other. This open relationship allows different forces to work together, one plus one is greater than two, benefiting many parties.
This kind of people generally don't take marriage too seriously, and don't regard it as static. Since they can get married, if they feel unhappy, they can of course get a divorce. There are no rulers and ruled in this union, no imposed restrictions and stifling demands for possession, women do not just do housework, men do not call the shots. They are based on mutual admiration and trust.
Guided by this new principle, each is free to allow his personality to mature, to enrich his own experience through the outside world, and to benefit from his partner's experience there.
3. Shooting videos is not a crime, but disseminating sex videos online for profit is a crime
The Internet allows a lot of vulgar pornographic information to spread wantonly, polluting the social atmosphere and bringing serious social impact. In recent years, nationwide special campaigns have also been jointly carried out to thoroughly rectify obscene, pornographic and vulgar information on the Internet.
Article 363 of the "Criminal Law" stipulates the crime of making, duplicating, publishing, selling, and disseminating obscene materials for profit, which refers to the act of making, duplicating, publishing, selling, and disseminating obscene materials for the purpose of making profits.
If the act of two people shooting a sex video is just for self-entertainment and appreciation, and not disseminated for profit, it will not involve a criminal offense; but if two people or one of them uploads a sex video for profit, they may commit the "crime of disseminating obscene materials for profit" ".
4. The "human flesh search" of Ms. Wu is suspected of breaking the law
It is not illegal for netizens to conduct a "human flesh search" on Ms. Wu if it is limited to their own knowledge. However, if the personal information of Ms. Wu or even her husband is published on the Internet, such as mobile phone number, photos, etc., it is suspected of violating the Tort Liability Law.
Article 12 of the Provisions of the Supreme People's Court Concerning Several Issues concerning the Application of Law in the Trial of Civil Dispute Cases of Infringement of Personal Rights and Interests Using Information Network , family address, private activities and other personal privacy and other personal information, causing damage to others, and the infringed party requests that it bear the tort liability, the people's court should support it. Article 15 points out that hiring, organizing, abetting or helping others to publish or forward network information violates the personal rights and interests of others, and if the infringed party requests the perpetrator to bear joint and several liability, the people's court should support it.
Ms. Wu can request to stop the infringement, make an apology and request compensation through negotiation or litigation.
As for what the netizen pointed out in the report post, Ms. Wu has "many people cheating on her marriage", "gathering a crowd for promiscuity", and "illegally employing foreigners to work illegally".
Let the bullets fly for a while.
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