[Reading experience] Take your time, child

My fingers are searching for the answer, who can tell me how to balance being a "mother" and being a "person"? I love being a mother so much, just putting the head of a child on my chest makes me feel happy. But I am also a person who needs a lot of inner space, like a wild wolf, without its open fields and cold moonlight.

"Tenderness" was the first thought when I read this book.

Knowing Long Yingtai begins with Wildfire. The strong words in the text are the observation and criticism of society, a kind of justice and strictness that hates iron.

And this "child, take your time"

It is about telling stories about children, which makes the article a little gentle. She explores the world with the children, and sings out-of-tune children's songs with them. She also worries about whether the happiness in fairy tales is too hasty. There are too many things that are not suitable to explain to the children. She has too many things to do, but she has no time and energy to do them. She also resented the difference between the father and the mother in the family care time, and she also worries that the two children are jealous The problem is all written, like a woman by your side, like a mother

This is not a book about parenting, but it is more about wisdom of parenting and reflection on education than prose, as well as a lot of identity and confusion about motherhood.

While we love our children, we often feel impatient, feel that time has been deprived, and can’t imagine what it feels like to be alone.


I remember reading a book titled "Young Literary Women is a disease, just have a baby." I haven't actually read this book, but I can understand the title and smile.


How many sad months, under the cry of the child, turned into a noisy and disturbing diaper milk powder.


Taiwan is already considered to be a good country in Asia for the development of gender equality, but women are often given too much maternal expectations, and they will have inexplicable concerns during pregnancy, this can't be done, that can't be done, less after giving birth Once you get a little milk, you will be stuffed with a pile of food that you don't like and can't finish.

How to raise a child, it seems that people all over the world can play chess for you, and if you listen a little less, you are like a mother who doesn't think about her children.


It’s just that we often forget that in order to be able to give, we must first be a wealthy person. To keep our children smiling, we must be a happy person.

Self-love can only love others, this is the eternal truth.

Be tolerant of yourself, and then you can patiently say to your child: child, take your time.