Chaos Daily Essays｜Adults

His eyes can no longer hide his worries about tomorrow. If he stares deeply into the eyes of the other party who are holding back tears, it is not difficult to realize that his restraint actually carries self-esteem, and there is a kind of self-confidence that cares about the image in the eyes of others.

It seems that when I talk to the more familiar friends, I can understand the free and easy "let him go", and I think from the bottom of my heart that no matter what choice the other party makes, you can support him unconditionally and without reservation.

Maybe it's because I hope that after he has spit on me, he still hasn't forgotten in the end, and many problems still have to be faced by myself - of course, I do too. Inevitably, he was a little ruthless, when he realized that he was already powerless.

"That is your responsibility, this is my mission." On the road of taking "adult" as the ultimate goal, clearly distinguishing the weight of self and others' lives has long been incomparable. This is the first lesson for adults.

R smiled and told me that perfume is the smell of adults. Deep down, I scoffed at this idea, but I couldn't refute it. There was some truth in what I said, and I was speechless for a short time.

We all know it's "adult," but it's defined by calculations by disgruntled, bored adults. Maybe arrogant, but I'll tell you that what adults need is to learn to be defiant.

Unless, when you look up into the distance, you find that you are not alone in the face of the unknown, and you can share your own sky with others. This is a precious romance between adults and adults.

As we grow up, we often lose a lot of opportunities or make some wrong decisions. These missed opportunities and wrong decisions, gradually, will take our life to a place that we never thought about.

Some places we can live very comfortably, some places we don't know at all, and we are scared to death; some places we have never seen, but we still muster up the courage to try.

But we mustered up the courage to give it a try.