The law of attraction is always useless? Maybe you never really understood it

We often hear the term The Law of Attraction, especially the book The Secret, which has become more familiar to everyone after it has also become popular among friends. But when you open the book of Secrets and try to use this seemingly magical Law of Attraction to change your life, you find that it doesn't seem so ideal. Where exactly is the problem? Is there something missing?

The Law of Attraction is just one of the tools we use to create our lives

First of all, we need to know that the so-called law of attraction is actually one of the tools we use to experience life, or rather, create our life. In fact, in addition to the Law of Attraction, there is a little friend called action, which is also mentioned in the secret book. Thinking is the first step in creation, making what we think possible. But to really make what you want to be a reality, it has to be your actions. Just think about it, when you're lying in bed doing nothing and wishing to be rich, is that possible? Of course not. So to put it bluntly, the Law of Attraction just makes what you want to do, more smoothly, and more likely to be achieved, not an excuse for doing nothing.

The Law of Attraction Requires Incomparable Trust in Yourself

The Law of Attraction actually requires you to believe in yourself at the beginning and at the time of implementation, and be sure that what you are doing is okay, so when you think about it, you can't be what I want, but What will happen to me in the end, because hope is that you don't necessarily get it, but you want to have it, that's what you say.

To a certain extent, it is an obsession with success, and if you look at famous people, you will find that most of them have this characteristic. Although it is easy to understand, it is quite difficult for ordinary people to do it exactly, and usually they have these three problems:

1. Impatience

Many times things don't progress as fast as you think, but people always want to see results quickly, and when a short period of time has passed without any results, they will begin to question their goals, even Give up, so remember to remind yourself to be patient. In addition, you can also try to use the waiting time to concentrate on the preparation work, which can have the effect of distraction, and perfect preparation can also bring you confidence. Of course, you may still have problems with negative emotions, so let’s look at the second point.

2. Negative emotions

Negative emotions are basically a great enemy of our practical goals, but we can try to harness them. Observe your own emotions. When you find yourself in negative emotions, you constantly deny yourself in your mind, become depressed, and try to move yourself out of it. If it still doesn't work, you can try to take a deep breath, walk around, etc., or read some positive books, so that Tarot and public divination (for me, Tarot is a way to communicate with your own soul), anyway You think it will be helpful for you to adjust your mentality.

In addition, when implementing the plan, focus your thoughts on some things you can control, such as updating IG, instead of expecting a fixed exposure rate every day, it is better to focus your thoughts on being able to achieve high quality every day share, so that you will not affect your mood because of high-variable goals.

3. Fear

Many times, we will know that everything in front of us is a bit unsuitable for us, and change can bring us a life that is more in line with our ideals, but when we are making choices, it is still easy to succumb to fear.

But, this is not our problem to a certain extent, because we have been educated like this, our system, we are told that the fittest survives, the smartest people will succeed, when your grades can't catch up with others, you will What brings is punishment, such a person is just a loser. So you try to be the most competent, the smartest person, and if you face uncertainty, you might be a little bit worse, and you get scared because you're scared of being a loser.

But this is wrong. In our life, the focus is only on experience and growth. There is no such thing as success or failure. All you need to do is to create the self you expect with your hands. Remember, you are who you are, and what people think of you doesn't mean you.

The Law of Attraction requires you to have an open mind

Also, the Law of Attraction requires you to be open to everything. Although the law of attraction can make it easier for you to achieve your goals, how you achieve them is not necessarily what you can predict.

This reminds me of a story: One day a great flood came, a devout Christian, on the roof, waiting for God's redemption. While waiting, someone was holding a small boat hoping to save him, but he thought God would come, so he refused. After that, a large log floated by, but he still believed that God would come. After that, a lifebuoy floated over, but he was still waiting for God. In the end, he was drowned by the flood, and when he got to heaven, he said angrily to God, I am so religious, why didn't I come and save me. God said helplessly, I sent three things to save you, but you refuse to be saved, what can I do?

In life, how many things will develop is unpredictable. It becomes important to be able to be open to all things and to take every opportunity, otherwise you will miss out on the possibility of reaching your goals. In addition, this world is a bit interesting, sometimes some nasty things come to tell you about potential problems, even if you say you have to have confidence, but you still need to check by yourself / others at this time to see if there is any room for improvement, but remember this During the process, don’t criticize yourself or feel disappointed in yourself, but still believe in yourself, because you have already done everything you know, and there is nothing wrong with it.

If you don't find any problems after double-checking, then it's usually just a test of your mentality (don't ask me why, but when implementing a goal, you always have to go through repeated mental tests until you can handle it perfectly. . . . Although these are very practical in the future, the process is really indulgent), since this is the case, leave it to the universe, adjust the mentality, and then do what should be done well, when the time is up, you see The problem is no longer a problem.

Summarize

The Law of Attraction is not as bad as you think. Most of its inaction is due to the deification of it in the market, which makes everyone misunderstood. As long as everyone knows the true principle of the Law of Attraction, then you must make good use of it. It shouldn't be too difficult to help yourself with this rule.

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