[Miscellaneous] Four characteristics of good text sharing and strong resilience

Good article I read this morning, can't wait to share my experience with you.

Margie Warrell, a writer for Forbes business magazine in the United States, who is also a professional consultant of business and psychological knowledge, put forward four characteristics of people with strong inner resilience. This article has made me feel very concerned, and the link to the original text is attached at the bottom.

1. Critical thinking: It is especially important in work or daily life. In addition to the politically manipulated Internet army, there are also illegal manufacturers who release fake news for profit. The blood oxygen measurement app that went viral a while ago is one example. Many People forward without thinking, without first questioning: Is technology so developed now? Do you have a medical device certification number (medical devices are different from general commodities and must be sent for testing)? How accurate is it (do you want to buy it if you know the accuracy is only 50%?) If you have been fooled, remember to develop a skeptical attitude from now on, in the era of fast-changing technology, old knowledge can be overturned, not to mention only Internet madness transmitted goods.

In addition, I would like to remind you not to veto the news first, but to keep an open mind to think and search for feasibility. For example, I heard a nurse complaining that a certain doctor’s doctor’s order was strange and unprofessional. In fact, after checking the Internet, I found that it was a verified and feasible treatment, but it was not common in a certain unit.

Another unpleasant thing is my personal experience. I prescribed a certain type of eye drops. Because I am unfamiliar with ophthalmology, I personally asked the ophthalmologist and the outpatient clinic. After 20 minutes, the attending physician said, "The nurse called. Said you prescribed the wrong medicine and needed to change it.”

I said, "Have you asked the ophthalmologist? Do you know what medicine I prescribe?" The other side was silent.

I thought to myself that you didn't even know what medicine I prescribed, and you accused me of hearing a complaint on the phone without even thinking about it. Although he apologized after explaining it, he still felt...

Just then the nurse came over and said proudly, "You placed the wrong order."

"Have you called the ophthalmologist?" I asked.

She shook her head.

"I called to confirm. If you doubt it, you can call and ask the ophthalmologist." While she was frustrated and said how it was possible (still didn't call to ask), I left the office, but the doctor's order was still executed.

Clinically, I rely on many nursing colleagues for help, and some nurses even remind me that I must respect their professionalism, but if the other party decides that I am wrong at the first time, to be honest, I am too lazy to waste my tongue and say that many people blame you for being long-winded, Show off. Everyone's life experience and work experience are too limited. The more you know this truth, the more you will shrink yourself to a smaller and more humble way, and it will be easier to learn things. If you intuitively deny it at the first time, you will miss a lot.

2. Get out of your comfort zone: This is the element that can turn your destiny the most. A certain specialist nurse decided to go abroad to study after turning 30. Some people shook their heads, laughing at her ignorance, not thinking, how old did she dream of studying abroad, and she did not have a degree in studying abroad, etc. As a result, they are now running a company in the mainland as their boss! Everyone is afraid of losing money and throwing away their youth, but not taking risks is just an ordinary road after all.

3. Set a stop loss point: I often hear people complain about how bad their boyfriends are, but they don’t break up. The reason is that they have been together for too long, and they are reluctant to waste their youth; and a friend has a crush on a certain girl, and has been a tool person for n years, and waits until someone else Let go before getting married and having children, and it has been in vain for five or six years. Persistence is a good thing, but it is not absolutely suitable for emotional use. Don't be like a fool buying stocks. You will only realize when you fall to the left.

4. Antifragility: Nietzsche's golden sentence "What doesn't kill me will only make me stronger." Looking back on the past, everyone has a sad story, and not all of them have survived the ebb and flow of life. Successful people gain self-confidence, failures become toughness without falling down, think of it as building muscles, and you will find that you are braver and stronger every time .

https://buzzorange.com/vidaorange/2018/06/22/strong-heart/