Born to work hard

I remember that I used to have a job where I often visited clients because of business. The boss always said that there was a client grandpa who was very good at palm reading and fortune-telling. After I visited the grandpa a few times, one day he said he wanted to help me with fortune-telling, and asked me to write it down. My name, he will read my fate from my words. At that time, my grandfather said a lot, and I forgot most of them, but I will always remember that sentence:

"You are born to work hard."

To be honest, I don’t like fortune-telling very much. I always feel that it will affect my mood and my choice of many things. Although I like to read some horoscope analysis to see if I have a personality like my horoscope analysis, but I Most of them still believe that my destiny is in my own hands, and every choice I make has made me who I am now.

The reason why I am so impressed by the sentence of hard work is because I found it suitable for me , but not because my grandfather figured it out, but because my personality made me feel very emotional. When I encounter something, I want to deal with it. To put it bluntly, I am a chicken woman. When my colleague’s work is difficult, I also want to help him (obviously it has nothing to do with me). After a few losses, I felt like I had learned to be good, but I often couldn't help being that idiot again.

A few years after leaving the society, my sharp personality has been rounded up a lot, and I have learned not to be so persistent about right and wrong. Sometimes even if I am right, I have no ability to change anything, just do my own thing well. And my hard-working personality will still show up at work unknowingly. For example, I don’t like to bother others, and I would rather do more myself; for example, when everyone quarrels over who should do this trivial matter, I will pick it up. Do. But am I a bad guy? That's not all, I will also bluntly correct a person because he has been making the same mistake all the time, and when a colleague comes to me to ask for a photo, I will analyze his problem and let him hear it. Not being comforted, he was stunned.

My personality is probably the same as my mother - knife mouth tofu heart, every time I want to try anything new, my mother often throws cold water, but she still always cares about how everything I mentioned is doing, Even asked me if I needed help. I quarreled with my boyfriend and complained to her, and she often said that I was too difficult to deal with, but she still listened to me and finished those boring little things.

Probably the most important thing in hard work is to relax! Don't always feel that others need help. Even if you don't have yourself, they can find a way to keep going. More often, it is you who should help yourself.