【Did you suffer during the break-in period? 】

He sat beside me, silently,
Watching the children go up and down on the seesaw, with joyful laughter,
I can't laugh at all,
"Why doesn't he speak? Does he not like me anymore?"

I don't know how many seconds passed,
I only know that I am about to be overwhelmed with anxiety,
"Doesn't he not dislike me as long as I find a topic, as long as we keep chatting?"

"ㄟ, look at that little kid who can't step on the ground."
"By the way, have you watched that awesome squid game?"
"Is it better for the cat at home to see the doctor?"
"What else? Ah! By the way, I went to buy it the day before yesterday..."

However, he still didn't respond.
I feel so tired,
I know that the break-in period is to break in with each other,
However, I have been looking for topics, and it is really difficult to talk about every little thing!

"It can be seen that you are trying very hard to maintain the dialogue to ensure that he likes you, but I am wondering if there is a possibility that you don't have to work too hard to maintain the dialogue, you sit quietly together, and he still likes you. ? 』

People who know me think that I talk a lot and love to amuse others.
This is true too,
I do like to make people interact and have a good time on most occasions,
But, that's not my only look!
At least, when I'm dating, I enjoy another look more...

holding a book in his right hand,
He put his left hand around her waist,
Well, occasionally the left hand will come off her waist, the book needs to be turned,
Her head rests on my shoulder,
Holding the tablet, watching her movies,
I like reading books very much,
A scent accompanies, I mean her hair,
However, occasionally you need to pick up books tirelessly,
There are always people who are too involved in the drama, laughing that the action is too big, and taking off the "background" next to it...
(Yes, I am the background, compared to her drama)

We still have a lot to talk about,
While driving, she complained about a pesky client, shared the prize from last week's raffle,
After watching the movie, I excitedly said how terrifying Ah Piao was in the movie,
I will also take the opportunity to go to the parking lot in the woods when there is no one around at night,
"Revisiting the old things",
Yes, there are people who are afraid and love to watch, but the other person is very naive and loves to be scary,
Don't doubt, it's me who is naive,
Of course she is the mature, fearful and loving one!

When two people are together, there are always many different places that need to be adjusted.
This is really a cliché,
But when you notice that they are different from each other,
Specifically, how to perform the action of "running in"?

In the above case,
Try to "understand": if two people have endless things to say, they like each other, and if they want to stay together quietly, they also like each other.
When the two stay together quietly, you no longer worry about whether he doesn't like you, you don't need to force yourself to squeeze the topic, you can accompany him more freely in the way he likes; and he will also use the way you like in a timely manner. The way to accompany you, just like when he was chasing you, he was as noisy as a fly and could not be beaten!

I don't want the break-in to be interpreted as superficial mutual tolerance,
That will make you suffer in the relationship,
I think there are many cases like this, so there is no need to repeat them!

For me, running in is a "mutual understanding process"
Behind the understanding of the different behaviors of the two, there is a common sense of cherishing each other,
Through understanding, let two people's hearts be conveyed to each other.
We can all be more comfortable with each other and feel more of our partner’s heart!

Hi, I'm Aaron,
A psychologist who often "talks" about love with students and is enjoying love,
Compared with talking about the cold love mechanism and skills, I prefer to share a relaxed, fun and comfortable love mentality.
Inviting you to experience a different form of love together, and encouraging you to suffer from love addiction with me is my ultimate goal!