Inspiration from the ViuTV variety show "The Gambling Couple" - what man may not be worthy of your love

Recently, I was watching ViuTV's "Gambling Couples". This program invited 5 couples, including Dennis and Teris; Haoran and Rebekah; Benson and Ruby; Ah Kuang and Luna; and Sam and Maegi. For the earliest <Temptation Island> live show. The program group arranges different couples to date and test whether they can resist the temptation.

To be honest, in front of the camera, I believe every couple will have reservations. What we want to discuss today is not the authenticity and crazy degree of the show. Let’s talk about one of the husbands, Benson, who bluntly said in front of the camera that he has a good impression of the part-time girlfriend ptgf arranged by the program group, and said to the woman: "Your appearance and temperament are very similar to an ex-girlfriend. She is the only daughter of a celebrity. A lot of good food and scenery are given the opportunity to go together with him, and we know that there is another way of life in Hong Kong with him. I am a public housing boy, and it is money in simple terms. I can’t afford him. After this relationship , For a long time I was very disgusted with everything about social class.”

From Benson's words, you will see that he is a man who has low self-esteem, misses his ex, and feels that his wife is not good enough. He is obviously tall, pleasing to the eye, and has a cute smile. He is also a high-achieving student who graduated from the University of Hong Kong and has a good-paying job. Why are you so inferior? It may come from the background of birth, so as to affect the state of mind. Women who fall in love with this kind of man must be tolerant, patient, and know how to entertain themselves. Because this man may not know how much you value him until he loses you.

It is difficult for a man with low self-esteem to find his favorite <br class="smart">A man with low self-esteem lacks self-confidence in his heart, and he has long accepted his fate and only wants to live in a comfort zone. If you don't dare to pursue someone with good conditions, even if a woman with good conditions chooses to give him true love, you will feel insecure in your heart. Then, often because of low self-esteem, I am in a comfortable state for love. Most of this kind of men will find someone who will give him the greatest sense of security to fall in love and marry.

A man who misses his past doesn't know how to cherish the present <br class="smart">A mature and good man will have the courage to forget his past and start a new relationship. Don't compare your past with your current one. There will be no new partner, and I still love the way I used to be in my heart. If the ex is so good and still nostalgic, anyone's new lover is a substitute.

The woman you can't get is the most perfect <br class="smart">When he said to his part-time girlfriend who has only been together for a while: "Your appearance and temperament are very similar to an ex-girlfriend." In this sentence, don't think that he is very deep feeling. He just always thought that the one beside him was not as perfect as other women. Therefore, when he meets a woman with better conditions than the other half, he will fantasize in his mind whether it is possible. Because he didn't try hard before, but even if he got a deep understanding, if you are really weaker than him, he thinks there is no challenge; if you are stronger than him, he feels that he is not worthy

An immature, thinking about the past, not knowing how to cherish and appreciate the man around him, falling in love with him is definitely painful.
But benson is still cute, that is, he is frank, that is, he said: "The prodigal son will never change his money." Being married is a responsibility, a responsibility is something you have to bear whether you like it or not. "

If this kind of man really values ​​responsibility so much, he must completely change his thinking, to appreciate and love the one around him.
Everyone may have an unforgettable past, and everyone may meet someone better.
Just as you grow up, you have to understand that the past is gone, and you have to learn how to cherish and appreciate the present.
Rather than so many regrets, difficulties, and fate.

So, suppose you have a lover with low self-esteem and affection by your side, you have to think clearly whether it is worth loving. Otherwise, as you around him, you have to always forgive this kind of man for derailing his thoughts, because he is always imagining that others are better.

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