si Kaoru|Baby! Happy birthday

🌸Baby! sorry

Yesterday, my father-in-law told me whether our sister's birthday is coming. The old man always remembers the birthday in the lunar calendar. Recently, he was busy with Chinese medicine rehabilitation, and he forgot his daughter's birthday.

My daughter is so quiet that people forget her existence, and when I meet a thick-faced mother like me, sometimes I really feel that I am not like a mother at all. I am repenting. When my daughter was a child, I hurried out of the house. He forgot that she was in his room and locked the door.

Fortunately, when my father-in-law came home, he found that his daughter was locked at home by a confused mother. It is undeniable that my daughter and I had a lot of problems in the past. I am an outgoing person, and I will never have great mood swings when I meet my daughter. I really don't know the mood of a person who is highly sensitive and has social phobia, and she cherishes words like gold. Sometimes I really don't know how to communicate with her. I write slowly and read a lot while writing. Books, I can look at children from another angle, and empathize with children.

🌻Thank you all for your kindness

As a mother, I only have a kindergarten level, because I am like a child, so my son was hyperactive when he was a child, but it was never a problem for me. I took him on adventures and treasure hunting. In fact, I was happier than him! Other family members I didn't dare to take him out at all. They couldn't resist the bombs from time to time, so my son was fire and my daughter was water. This nature was so different that I was really overwhelmed.

I always felt that I was a failure and I didn’t know how to teach my children, but only later did I realize that children are inherently independent individuals, and everyone’s natural temperament is inherently different. I thought my idea was the most correct, but in fact, when I admitted that I was weak, the children suddenly grew up.

I learned a lot of things at this age. This also means that everyone has always tolerated themselves. Now my daughter and I can chat like sisters, which was unimaginable before. She would think that I was very noisy and could not chat at all. I couldn't stop opening, I really met a strong opponent, I was speechless, the cold air condensed, I slowly let go of myself, got to know myself from the heart, and then went to see the children.

In the past process, I truly accepted others and tolerated others from the bottom of my heart. Now, I have a better understanding of my heart and can learn to see the good points of others. I don’t want to see only the bad side of my children. I was anxious, I could only tell myself, tell my children, to get along well with myself, everyone is different, to accept their natural traits, and then learn to make themselves better.

🌺 happy birthday

My anxiety is obviously better. Although I am still taking medication, I used to be nervous and my heart rate would increase during phone tests, but now I am much calmer. I hope my grades will not be too bad. Well, I have always told myself that it will be better.

Tonight, my daughter chose her birthday for herself

【Caramel Apple Black Tea Mousse Cake】

sister with tasteful taste buds

This cake is really layered

There are still nuts

Caramel Apple Black Tea Mousse Cake

first taste

really special

Bless our sister

Happy birthday

After everyone finished eating, they knocked on the bowl and made tiramisu, to satisfy everyone’s desire to eat. Sure enough, desserts are the most unforgettable. Today, in front of the cake window, I saw a lot of desserts, each of which makes people want to eat. When you can see the dessert photos after eating the cake, you can know that this cake will not be boring at all. Fortunately, my sister made a clear choice, so that I have a goal.

It really makes people want to try it, it looks really delicious!

Baby! Happy Birthday!

My greatest hope in my life is that you and your brother can find their own path in a healthy and happy way. You are in my heart, you are really very capable, a wonderful child, everyone is unique, when you learn to love You will accept yourself as you are, pity yourself, not hate yourself, you tell me, you hate yourself, you don't need to exist in this world, I really didn't know how to help you at that time, I just wanted to use Action tells you that when you open the door of your heart, there will be sunshine to warm your heart, then you will understand that you will like yourself, bless our sister, can walk out of her own way, my mother really loves I love you very much.

rosa cake

Every pastry is not just a cake, but a heart and a story...

In fact, sweetness is very close to you!