【Children's Picture Book】Our Saturday

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The best picture book of the year in the Amazon online bookstore in the United States leads us to think about how to face the "lost" emotion, which is not only suitable for children but also adults to read.
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When we wake up in bed every morning and open our eyes, we always look forward to a new and better day. However, this hope occasionally fails, such as being late for work due to traffic jams, or temporarily picking up The work schedule is chaotic when the customer calls back, the long-awaited dinner is cancelled, etc., all of which will destroy our interest and make our mood drop to the bottom. We learn to appease ourselves through experience and experience We gradually feel accustomed to our life, but after all, we are not cold-blooded animals, so we still feel lost, and then we use different methods to slowly stabilize our emotions, even as adults, we are still unable to adapt to this The expectation gap, not to mention that the experience value is much lower than our children? So what this book wants to convey is when we face things that are not as expected, what kind of mentality should we use to face it?

The book depicts that the little girl and her mother have only one day a week to get along for a long time, so the mother and daughter always go out to do a lot of things, but occasionally encounter a day when everything goes wrong. The girl, and taught her that she can close her eyes or take a deep breath, and then tell herself that today will be a good day, and use a positive thinking attitude to inspire herself, but it backfires. The emotions were crushed. At this time, the little girl played the role of comforting the mother, and let the mother know that the reason why today is beautiful is because the two of us are together . The sentence was so powerful that the daughter next to me also leaned on my shoulder coquettishly and held my hand with a smile.

Although this story does not have a very surprising plot development, it can make us think about the issue of " loss ". No one likes the feeling of loss, but we often encounter it and must learn to live with it. Being in the emotional whirlpool of loss for too long will easily lead to the mentality of resentment , feeling that the whole world is against you, and even easy to get angry when we encounter small setbacks, so we should learn to experience every loss. Discover the small happiness and magnify this energy , so that we can easily be relieved from the emotions of loss and anger. The skills of changing minds can be cultivated from an early age, and can also be learned with parents and children. It is also very helpful in parent-child relationship. .





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