Heaven can see the hindsight

What's happened, happened.

What happens is what happens doesn't change the fact

Because there is no time machine in reality, it can be said that this sentence really penetrates into my heart. Many times we will be stuck in the past. What happened is that no one can change it, but the future is in our own hands. There is still a chance that the outcome of a similar incident will be different next time. Let’s take the relationship as an example. There are always people who say that he always encounters scumbags and scumbags, but is it possible that our attitude towards relationships makes each other a scumbag Male scumbag? I am a bloody example. At the beginning, I spoiled my wife so much that I spoiled my ex-wife more and more like a giant baby. Now, what we should do is to learn lessons from these things to face the next life, and not let ourselves continue to be unable to extricate ourselves in it, which is really not a good choice.

I told you, you have to start looking differently at the world.

You have to start seeing the world from a different perspective

I think this sentence is connected with the previous sentence. When you accept or admit the facts, you will start to want to see the world from a different perspective. My friends often complain that the world is unfair, but I once replied to him that if What do you think about it? From your point of view, everything should be fair, right? After all, "theoretically" he doesn't think it's fair. Sure enough, what angle do we look at is important, right? I remember there is also a slang in Taiwan: To suffer a loss is to take advantage of it, and it also tells people to look at things from a different angle. The world is changing very fast. People will look old but the things in their minds can’t.