Gossiping about the self in consciousness

Xiaolu's school girl, discussed with Xiaolu yesterday: The self that people think of, that is, the self in the so-called world of consciousness, why can't it be said that it is real?

.... After the five senses, the problem of the school girl has also escalated....

From the last talk about the five senses, we know that we have five senses, namely eyes, ears, nose, tongue, and body. We use these five sense senses to perceive form, sound, smell, taste, and touch. This is natural daily life, something we must have, without which we would not be human but puppets.
This seeing-perceiving process is natural and does not need to be avoided deliberately. Where will the problem arise? The problem lies in how we will judge the information received next~
(We are about to enter Italy!)

Take the beginning of a certain social news as an example. When someone went to eat in a restaurant, he saw someone looking at the door making a phone call. It was a fact and what he saw when he saw someone looking at the door and making a phone call. Everything that followed was what he thought was a fact in his imagination, he thought this man looked at me and then looked at the door and called, he must be one of the group of people who have a grudge against me, he Now the call is to tip off the news. He is watching the door because he is afraid that I will run away, so he is monitoring me. After making a judgment, he will take the action he thinks should be done!

He went up to beat the man.
The store owner called the police behind, and the police came to deal with it.

But what is the truth? It was a person waiting for a friend, looking at the door to see if a friend was coming, calling to ask when they would arrive, and they didn't know each other at all.

Taking this troublemaker as an example, we can know why we say that what we imagine is what we form in our own consciousness, and we can't say that these are real.

When that man uses his own experience and his own imagination to be the master, his behavior is what it will look like under his own consciousness, and after such experience is accumulated, he will be a irritable, irritable, suspicious person. A man, he becomes what he kneaded and shaped by himself. At this time, the man seen by others will not be the man who has not passed these self-judgments, but a man who has been judged many times because of self-judgment. , In the end, it really became the result of the self-judgment, dressed up by that self-consciousness.

Like the analogy with the mirror, a person appears in front of the mirror, and the mirror prints the appearance of a person. This is normal. When a person leaves, the mirror still looks like a person. That is haunted!

Therefore, writing things or opinions about people into consciousness with one's own thoughts is an abnormal haunting behavior. People have left, and they insist on depicting or even engraving the appearance of each other in their own mirrors. This is the Perseverance. And this attachment will affect our later behavior, and turn it into how we appear to be who we think we are.

Here, the deer will emphasize self-judgment and persistence, because we will indeed hurt the spring and mourn the autumn. When we see the fallen leaves, we associate time with the passing of time, and then encourage ourselves to cherish the time. This is no problem. The problem is: seeing the fallen leaves, that Leaf must be cursing me, he is cursing me to die early! Wow match! The leaves are very innocent, the leaves are just time, the growth cycle is over, they fall naturally due to gravity, the leaves drop their leaves, and then there is a person who regards himself as the center of the earth, everything has to do with him, and he thinks about it. Innocents will be implicated in the future!

The problem is definitely not thinking, not associating, but not even the awareness that we are judging ourselves and not being real.

If we know the root cause, can we explore it? In fact, it is difficult, just like sometimes we fall into anxiety, we know that this environment is actually very safe, in fact, no one will hurt me, but I just can’t struggle with this emotion, just feel that something is wrong, this is what others call We can’t solve it even if we don’t worry, even if we know it’s tiring and don’t want to keep worrying, we can’t do it.

This kind of situation where you can't solve the problem by yourself even if you know where the problem is, is the self that has been formed.
And this kind of self is also the self that others will see, and it is also the self that we will act under the rule of thumb.
One will think that because others just look at him, he thinks that he is going to attack his own self.

So how to get out of this predicament?

It's been too long, let's talk about this tomorrow~

The above are just Xiaolu's immature thoughts. If there is a better explanation, please tell Xiaolu•◡•Thank you all◝(⁰▿⁰)◜