The benefits of board games! Parent-child board game X three generations play board games together -- "No hea play, no competition, more fun"

I read a piece of news about board games before. from Hong Kong.

news:

[Parent-child board game] Don't play, don't let the social worker mother build high-quality parent-child time with board games . Please click me for the original source

Summary:

"The biggest difference between playing a game console and a board game is that one is a video game, the other is a physical object, and there is a close interaction between people, you can meet, many people can focus on one thing at the same time, you can touch, laugh together, and Immediate response, more interactive than playing a machine.”

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The reporter asked with a smile whether Mimi is actually a playful mother, because it is different from taking children to hobby classes. In addition to learning how to play board games, she also has to play the game in person. In addition to time, she also needs to give energy. "Haha, you're right, in fact, I am also a playful person." In addition to not letting the game, Mimi said that he can't "hea play", because the child will feel whether the parent's attention is on him, and whether he has the scheming to get along with him. . "After playing the board game, everyone's intimacy improved. He felt that his mother would concentrate on playing with him instead of doing housework. There was no one else during this time. The clip of playing with his mother was Happy Moment. Ben can't get it."

Thoughts:

Try to explain first. "Don't play with hea" and "Don't let the game" in Hong Kong dialect are "don't play seriously" and "don't lose intentionally" respectively. Therefore, the meaning here is that when playing board games, do not deliberately lose to children, and also require children not to play seriously.

Among them, "Don't let the game" reminds me that when I used to play games with my child, "whether or not he should win", I was entangled in my heart. In order to encourage him and give him confidence, it seems that we should find a chance to let him win; but I really want to win myself! It feels good to win! Therefore, I seem to have unknowingly, there is no "handicap".

If I "let the race" the child should be able to feel it! ? That feeling shouldn't be very good, it's a bit of a feeling of being given charity. On the other hand, in the process of "playing", you need to be "involved". Both adults and children should be "involved in the game", that is, you yourself "love to play" and "want to play".

To be a leader in introduction, you must "love to play" and "want to play", even more than children. Children feel this atmosphere from you, and they are infected with this atmosphere. Will become very engaged, "want to play", "want to play". Only when such a "virtuous interaction" is formed can the game be played wonderfully!

Since I started to promote board games, I have always encouraged "parent-child board games", hoping to bring board games to the family, so that family members, parents, children, and grandparents can also come together. The interaction between the two generations can also be the interaction of "three generations" and "grandfather and grandson". After dinner, the family will have a "UNO Die Die Le" or "Witty Storyteller", which is definitely better than returning to their own rooms. Swipe your phone a hundred times better!

Such "parent-child board games" or "three-generation board games" are slowly gaining the attention of the public sector. As far as I know, many public sectors are now moving in this direction. For example, in the "Grandparents Day" promotion and celebration event, the "Family Yu-Gi-Oh - Three Generations of Grandchildren Playing Board Game Fun" family board game competition will be held---this is a proof.

Interesting, right? Jump into the embrace of board games! But please remember -- "Don't play, don't let the game play", and be more involved in the game than the child! !