love withdrawal

Ending a long relationship is tantamount to defeat, followed by a long period of withdrawal and mental restructuring.

Like walking without the center of gravity, all motivation for life is gone. I just want to shrink in bed and don't want to take half a step out of the room. One second, stretched a little bit, into an hour. Even if it was calm for a while, then it was like a year.

Knowing that there is no future, knowing that he will no longer love him, he is still reluctant to delete all contact information, and still has to send messages humbly and wait for the other party to reply. If the other person replies, you can get a moment of peace of mind. If the other party replies late, or even refuses to pay attention, the sky will collapse immediately, and the memories will be overwhelming.

At this time last year, we went to see the sea together, walked on the beach, and now it has disappeared. Habitually sharing information with each other, he suddenly remembered that he was no longer his original role. Picking up any object in the house, what he said, his appearance, came to the front again.

Some people say that it is futile to think about these things, to be ruthless than the other party, delete all information, block, discard all the things he left behind, when he is dead, and then go live happily.

When people are not in love, they are all philosophers of love. The truth is nothing more than those, but people who are in love, no matter how rational, will still drive themselves to be saddened beyond measure.

Unless those who propose to break up, and the brave who compulsively suppress their emotions, will soon get out of lovelorn. Anyone who has truly loved one must spend a lot of effort to quit, in order to eliminate the pain of the heartbreak.

Want to move forward, look away in many ways, read, exercise, chat with friends. But when I was alone, I was still miserable and restless, and I always wondered whether the other party had completely forgotten him and started to live again, and whether he had another new love, and his life was still a piece of shit.

But this turmoil finally came to an end. He disappeared, there is a reason for his disappearance, that is, he no longer loves naked. No matter how difficult it is, how painful it is, the fate is broken, and we don't owe each other, everything will become a memory.

I can only keep telling myself that there is no cure for lovelorn, the only antidote is patience and time.