What are your plans for the second half of 2022?
I have never been a person who is very good at planning life. There is no other reason, because I like a plain and stable life, and I don’t particularly like going out to play, so basically I can be comfortable without special planning.
Sometimes I don't know if I don't like change or if my good adaptability is invisibly integrated with the change without knowing it, or maybe it's the past work experience that has created the optimism that the soldiers come to block the water and cover the soil, I always It’s not unfounded, and I rarely feel anxious about things that haven’t happened yet. Even if things don’t go as expected, I can still produce a set of self-comforting lines. This is an innate ability from a young age. Now that I am an adult, I realize that it is just the mechanism of self-protection, but I am also glad that I can have it without deliberately studying it.
But from another point of view, I am a person who lacks long-term planning. For example, some people plan short, medium and long-term goals, and work hard to achieve them. Compared with those who work hard, I have become relatively comfortable. Human beings, and "tiredness" has become my eternal excuse. In the workplace, she is like a headless fly, who does not know who is working hard for whom. After becoming a full-time mother, in addition to dedicating herself to fighting monsters, she also gets the price of body aches. To say that the plan is too idealistic, after all My daily hope is only the improvement of my child's health and sleep quality, and everything else is a luxury.
However, there have been some changes in my thinking recently, and I began to feel that I should move. The so-called move is to make some plans, and then specifically conceive and implement them, which may compress the daily trivial time, but at least Give yourself a chance to try, it is also a homework for yourself!
2022 is already halfway through without knowing it, and the child is about to enter the middle class. I hope to follow the child to advance together and go through the different challenges and surprises of life together!
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