On the first day of employment, come back to the matters to ramble on | Some thoughts on women at work

Aug. 14 | Beijing

On the night of the 12th, I brushed to matter, I was moved, and left two paragraphs of text to record my mood at that time. Unexpectedly, I received the "matters daily exclusive to me" in the mailbox the next day, with likes, responses and concerns. Although it is only a little bit, I think it is quite interesting. Matters is very attentive to users.

So I decided to record my feelings on the first day of employment.

Arrived on time in the morning, and found that there was no one in the office, and everyone came to work in a hurry, basically 20 to 30 minutes late. Flexible office, I can understand, but I am still not used to it. Maybe I follow the rules most of the time, too obedient. There are also early and late get off work hours, just finish the work at hand. The leader told me the day before that he was going to participate in activities in other places. On the day of his entry, another partner would talk to me first, and if he had something to do, he would just ask the executive girl or WeChat. I have to say that this "girl" makes me feel very good, not an administrative lady, nor an administrative XXX. I feel the respect and care for female employees, and I feel that I have come to the wrong place. Trust your feelings and keep believing in some good qualities.

During my first day at work, I inevitably conducted self-examination, especially in terms of communication and presentation, although I have realized not to use too many qualifying adjectives such as "should", "as if", "maybe" ", "maybe", etc., but these words will still blurt out when speaking, and the tone is obviously much weaker. This way of expression has been with me for a long time, and I hope to be able to speak clearly through more practice in the future. Maybe handwriting in matters is also a form of exercise? (ooops I said "maybe" again...)

Well, speaking is indeed an art. It is not easy to express the most accurate meaning in the most concise language. I used to think that this is the norm. Later, after conscious observation, I found that male colleagues are obviously less likely to do this. I couldn't help but sighed. Friends often praise me, affirm my advantages, and give me a lot of encouragement and help me to be more confident. But in real life, I still often feel that no matter what I do, I still feel that it is not enough, that it can be better, and there is still room for improvement... This may be a way of self-improvement when I am young (I I also said "maybe"...), I hope that with the continuous growth of self, I can face work and life more confidently, and achieve a more comfortable and not twisted state through self-awareness and self-learning. I think I should be able to. (I said "should" again...) Actually, I can.