mattersCommunity Events - I'm actually fine!?

Before we start, let's take a picture first, and Liao Wenqiang's <Comedy Life> will be the opening.
(This is a little singer that the ferret has liked for at least 10 years, sincere and warm )

Let’s talk about it today, the ferret , (a lot of the following content is a small world of ferrets, which may not be the same as you imagined)

The lie I've told the most in my life should be: I'm actually pretty good? I'm fine, don't worry.
Is the ferret an optimistic person? Well, naturally optimistic and raunchy.
But in fact, I am a person who does not like to trouble others .

I'm a natural extrovert, shaped by my environment to be an introvert <br class="smart">I am an extremely emotional person, I am shaped by my environment to be a rational brain <br class="smart">I can be A complete listener can also be a complete decision maker. Such a changeable character causes me to have different aspects and contradictions, which also makes me have more different states.

The essence of man cannot be changed, but can the character of man be changed?
(Yes, it's just that the person is willing to change)
It's too far, almost changed to psychology XD

I really seldom take the initiative to share my thoughts and my own state. Even if others ask me, I will take the initiative to change the subject or ask others back. I am very good at listening to the complaints of people with different personalities. I can even catch different questions. Advice as needed
(I really rarely meet people that I can't catch) , but I often can't catch myself, so I have to talk about my heart, most of which are one-on-one. As long as there are more than three people talking about my heart, I will be incomparable. anxiety.
And I'm only willing to tell my own state if I feel it's a safe environment

I am also a person who is good at putting away sadness and negative emotions, (and packing other people's emotions by the way)
No matter how bad I was in the past, I would always say to the people beside me: It's okay! I'm fine
I don’t want others to worry or even be sad. I am 90% of the people who keep their sadness to themselves. I am a very stubborn person, and to a certain extent, I am also a very self-suppressing person.
(So if I really talk to someone about my heart, then I really value this person)

So when I can't hold back, when I'm super stressed and super negative, I hide. It's the kind of state where I've evaporated from the world and no one can find me.
(The kind that loses everything and disappears)
Then adjust and digest well and it will appear.
But in this way, there will always be an explosion.

Until ............after I got sick. (this is another story line)
(People's resistance to stress is very strong, but they will really get sick under high-intensity stress for a long time.)
My outlook on life and my values have changed a bit.
(This should not be finished for three days and three nights, but if I want to talk about it, I should open the fire and then lock the text.)


Sometimes the lies that are told cannot be deceived by ourselves. Even if the lies are beautiful, we must always face ourselves.
So now I am more willing to tell others how I really feel . ( also less arrogant)
Don't doubt that I'm the kind of person who can't always find the right medicine for a counselor (I also consult a counselor)
( I used to like to read psychology stuff, so... Insightful XD)

Now, when I type this article, I also face my own feelings to a certain extent. This feeling is very naked.
I also started to confess here, my own feelings and thoughts, after all, no one knows who I am (except @Esther Miller, but don't doubt that he doesn't know much about me~ㄎㄎ)

I'm actually fine (sometimes a lie is a lie I pretend to be)
But no matter what lies, you have to accept all the consequences for yourself.
I'm not an angel face with always sunshine positive
I was also when there was a slushy noodle with ink sauce
This article is also to make a breakthrough, (I am not a positive angel face)
Different aspects of me have completed the current me.
What the hell did I type? I just said a bunch of very reasonable nonsense. This also means that I will post a lot of articles from different aspects in the future (bar)

Finally, let's end this topic with this paragraph.
Cherish everyone who is willing to give light by your side
May we gently bring warmth to those around us


Everyone who brings warmth does not always have the sun in his heart, but is always in the darkest night sky, waiting for a silent starlight
-Liu Wenqiang <Comedy Life>