Mental and physical encounters are more serious?

Spiritual affair and physical affair, which one can you accept? Before getting married, I talked with my friends about feelings and hypothetical issues. Those who think that spirituality is one and love is very pure will answer that neither can be tolerated; A person chooses a physical encounter.

I don't know if the comparison won't hurt

After getting married, talk about such topics with married friends, and say with a very ostrich attitude: "I don't know, it's better, I don't know, it's less painful, if the other half has the ability, don't let me find out."

Because, they have come into contact with many men from life and work, and they think that they are cheating on the scene, not having a fixed relationship with the same person or having an emotional relationship, and they are not considered cheating.

He talked about everything with his college male classmate W. W's girlfriend should have vaguely known that the two were ambiguous, but neither of them crossed the friendship line.

After graduating from university, W was working in Taipei, and I came to work in the central part of the country. There were fewer and fewer interactions, and the relationship was empty. The same male colleague (now husband) seemed to be interested in pursuing him. Before accepting him, in order to give up on W, Decided to give it a try, and tentatively asked W through a letter if there was a possibility. (It's an old-fashioned way, I wonder how young people are tempted now?)

If W did not answer directly, it was impossible. I accepted the pursuit of my male colleague and continued to be friends with W.

Male classmate on business trip

Since they all work in the press, W still occasionally shares the joy of her outstanding performance at work and the birth of her daughter, and even told me that she had an affair with a foreign girl when she was on a business trip. W went to Thailand on a business trip, met a local beauty, took him to visit famous places, and his feelings warmed up quickly. He avoided the beauties from the same industry and smuggled into the hotel to spend several nights.

W should have wanted to tell others about this affair, but was afraid that the words would reach his wife, so he chose to tell someone who was far away in the middle and who wouldn't tell his wife!

Married Police Love Half Set

Next, they are familiar with male police officers, and from time to time they find male reporters to play in snack bars, take young ladies out for sex transactions, or go to half-stores to "relieve stress".

They usually seem to be good fathers and love their family. When they find me showing a suspicious and puzzled expression, they try to explain: "Hey! It's all a show outside, and half of it is just detoxification. If you get married, don't be too strict! Yan! The government produces thick thieves (in Hokkien, it means that a strict government will produce powerful thieves).”

Entrepreneurs of the people's generation often come to play

In the news of running the government meeting, many people from the generation of people and even entrepreneurs, they are often outspoken, and they even brag about all kinds of bizarre experiences.

You must have heard a lot of these common rhetoric in male society. Seriously, has my other half done the same thing? I really don't know if the comparison won't be painful. Knowing that, it must be inevitable that the heart will be churning! Thinking the other half is animalistic or "dirty", at least so far, I don't know of such a thing.

A few years ago, at a reunion with W and another college classmate, the three of them talked about everything. Thinking of the incident in Thailand, they asked W, "What would you do if someone came to recognize your father from Thailand one day?" W seemed to be Completely forgetting that incident, he said decisively, "No way!"

Many things cannot be known until the coffin is closed, and maybe even the moment the coffin is closed, you may not know the truth! Choose the ostrich mentality, right? I don't know either!