Year-end checklist | Hope to review this article with confidence by the end of 2022

Dec 30, 2021

I hope that by the end of 2022, the situation in life will improve and get on track. I hope that I can review this article with pride and a sense of accomplishment, instead of feeling that I have been reckless for another year 🤦🏻‍♀️

I have been a little tired in body and mind recently, and the output of articles has been greatly reduced. I have always planned to write about this topic, but I didn’t expect the deadline to end in a blink of an eye. My life is really suffering from procrastination~

One thing that affects you a lot this year, even enough to change your life

There was an unprecedented crisis in the intimate relationship. About half a month was spent in an extremely low ebb and doubt in life. At one point, I felt that there was a possibility that I would not be able to go on. I felt overwhelming uncertainty about the future, and I began to seriously examine whether I had enough ability. To adapt to the changes in the world, there is a feeling of waking up from a big dream. The counselor also told me that the other half has the Astor trait. People with this trait may have insufficient perception ability in interpersonal interaction, unable to appreciate unspoken rules and other people’s overtones, and their thinking patterns have a subtle sense of inconsistency with most people. I often fail to respond to my partner's emotional needs well. In short, the counselor said that it will be more difficult to get along and communicate with each other.

Then I also saw the experiences of my friends and my parents, all of which made people feel less confident about the relationship between the sexes. My girlfriend has been with a boy for many years, but the other party has no intention of getting married and having children (it should be said that he does not consider his girlfriend as a marriage object at all), nor does he take the initiative to break up. Lie went to meet L in private, and his best friend finally decided to leave him. It was not easy for the man to break up, just because he was not sure that L's line would be successful at that time. After the bestie broke up, the boy and his old ex-girlfriend L actually quickly had fraternal twins within half a year (the two were far apart, and no one would believe it if there was no layout), and they also got married. The bestie only found out about this recently. The twins are more than a year old, and the pain that finally healed a little bit has been tossed again.

Another friend was about to register his marriage with his girlfriend, but he went out with a girl who looked like his ex-girlfriend behind his back (there was no appointment). Then my parents were in trouble at home. My mother had a car accident a few days ago. My father was the owner of the car and knew the price of repairing the car. My mother went to mediate with the other party one month after the accident. During the process, my father pretended to be dead and didn’t respond to any questions he asked. I would like to attend the mediation committee, but I didn’t ask for compensation (my mother is a full-time housewife and doesn’t have a lot of savings). Even when I came forward to help my mother ask my dad questions, my dad deliberately avoided answering them. In the end, the mediation committee still made me take time to accompany my mother. Yes, I think it's too chilling for a couple to be like this. Everything that happens in oneself and the surrounding makes people feel that the friendship between people is too fragile, it is difficult to manage an intimate relationship, people are always changing, and nothing can be stable for a long time...

One thing you have changed this year

The first is diet control and exercise. This plan has been implemented since the end of 2020. During the process, I learned a lot about healthy eating and cultivated my interest in mountain climbing. Otherwise, I used to be discouraged and lack interest in mountain climbing. It is true that you can lose weight by cooperating with exercise, but it was disrupted by the epidemic in the middle, and once you lost it, you gained some weight again. The hardest part of losing weight is really perseverance!

The second thing is that I learned how to run We-Media during the epidemic. Although I couldn’t do it myself, I finally understood how KOLs, bloggers, and youtubers on the market sell and make money. Now I know how to write articles systematically, and I have learned SEO skills and the use of tools such as google analytics and search console. After joining Matters, I feel like I have discovered a new world. Writing articles on Matters is a good way to hone my writing skills. I can earn some lunch money by writing articles (although it has become more and more difficult to write articles recently). For the first time, I came into contact with the currency circle and opened an exchange account, but the currency circle is too broad and profound, and I haven't had much time to study it. At the same time, it also reorganized the ruffians and bloggers that had been abandoned for a long time, and began to operate seriously, especially the blogger station. SEO starts from 0 completely. It really takes a lot of effort to research, and it takes a lot of thought to select templates (it will be slow Slow to know what suits your needs), debug is also debugged (free boy can't complain 😭), applied for adsense for the website, but the current traffic is too little (helpless). The YouTube channel operated by the Buddhist department has now begun to operate more seriously, but the output speed is still very fast (cutting the film is very tiring), and it is not profitable at present, and can only hope for the next year.

Three "event name", "reason or reason", "how to achieve this thing" for next year's plan

ㄧ、Passed the Spanish test

Reason: The previous class was about to finish the B2 textbook, but because the number of students was too small to continue, so I started to downgrade to another class in December, and that class just finished B1. I think that since I have to study again, I have already learned it. things, simply review while preparing for the exam. For many years, I have been studying foreign languages in the Buddhist department. I have never reviewed it after class. I have forgotten the vocabulary after I have studied it. Although I have reached B2, I may even have learned some things in A1 and A2 and forgot. The teacher said that the graduation standard for Spanish undergraduates is B1, so I ideally have passed the B1 test, but I don’t have B1, and I also hope to pass the A2 test.

How to achieve it: Next, you should review carefully, do a good job book, and increase the amount and difficulty of the Spanish articles you usually read. In your spare time, you should listen to more Spanish podcasts or any materials that can practice listening. Recently, I started to use Spanish I can write short essays or diaries in English, and I may find a short-term tutor to practice oral speaking before the test (ah, ah, why do I not have three-dimensional Spanish or Latin American friends~~~).

Second, take care of the body

Reason: I feel that there are more and more physical problems, the most troublesome are the skin problems and the vocal cords that are increasingly difficult to vocalize

How to achieve it: Schedule the progress of the visit and the treatment, and make improvements step by step.

Three, break up

Reason: It is a pity that there are many things in the house that are tasteless and discarded. The more things I buy, the more and more I pile up. I feel upset every day. Band T-shirts that can no longer be bought but are usually used as pajamas, souvenirs obtained from chasing stars or watching concerts), I can't think of what to do for the time being, I am asking for suggestions~~

How to achieve it: Take a good inventory of what to keep, what to clear, and what to throw away. After counting, throw it at auction for resale, or give it away or donate it.