The more average your family conditions are, the more you need to go out and see the world!

My family is at best relatively well-off, which means that it is almost impossible for my parents to have the money to let me explore the world after supporting me in college.

Recently, I suddenly realized that the more girls from ordinary families like me have to run around, because I can’t get any of the wealth and resources my parents have accumulated for me if I stay where I am, and I have to compete with people who have mines at home. , isn’t this stupid!

After traveling around the world for a whole year, I gradually realized that the more girls are willing to spend money to invest in themselves, the richer they will be.

I saved hundreds of thousands when I left my job last year. After traveling for a whole year, I looked at my bank card a few days ago and found that instead of decreasing, my savings this year have actually increased. When your horizons are opened, there will naturally be more opportunities to make money.

Finally, I would also like to share some thoughtful words from a big sister from an ordinary family to friends who are younger than me or of the same age.

1. Don’t save money, invest in yourself

If your monthly income is less than 30,000 yuan, then don’t even think about saving money. No matter how much money you save, you can’t afford to buy a house in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. It’s better to invest it in yourself and leverage bigger houses. Opportunities for wealth. This is really not what I said, it was what Buffett said at the Berkshire shareholders meeting.

I even look back at the time when I graduated from college. What’s the point of saving thousands of dollars every month? It might as well be used to learn a language or a skill.

2. Do things that get your hands dirty.

I have many friends who come from big factories and graduated from prestigious universities. I find that the biggest problem many of them have is: "They know a little about everything you say, and they know too much but do too little." , and as a result, I don’t want to try anything, and I can’t accomplish anything!”

So I remind myself all the time, "Try it first and try it. Everything becomes more fun the more you do it. It's impossible to know what's going on inside the wall if you stand outside the wall?"

3. There is no conflict between female competition and male competition. I want both.

Many girls my age have very strong anxiety about choosing a spouse. When I used to work in a big city, I was also very worried that I would not be able to get married and end up alone. But as I traveled around this year, I gradually found myself. I found that men are not just found, but attracted.

Only when you do what you like will you be able to bring out the best in yourself, and those people will be attracted to you. Otherwise, no matter how good you are at dressing up, everything will go with you!

I am Xia Meng, a digital nomad currently living in Bali. I have just finished traveling around the Asian part of the world. I am currently in Bali and plan to go to Europe for a few months at the end of September to learn French and aromatherapy. We are still in the process of applying to schools, so I will share the news with you as soon as I have it.

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