The King of Popularity and the sincerity I give

When I was in college, I was very busy, and as if I didn't seem to be so busy, I doubted my worth, time was precious, and I wanted to be a "useful person." That's right! It is the kind of "useful" in the universal value of society. I want to have a beautiful education, find a good paying job, I want to live in a house with wooden floors and a central island kitchen, and I want to travel around with my family in my lifetime. ......, it seems that everything I want is always more satisfying than what I can create. I was so dissatisfied back then, and I didn't have the ability to affirm and accept my complete self. Therefore, I can only Earn some peace of mind by constantly pushing yourself forward. However, the peace of mind that needs to rely on external objects for comfort is as fragile as a bubble, and it will burst when touched.

The legendary university requires four credits: "Schoolwork", "Love", "Association", and "Part-time Internship". Are these really believed? Are you still following the schedule? Except for love that I always thought was unattainable in my heart, I wanted all the rest. Breaking away from the high school career where I always had to abide by the school rules, the palace of the university seemed to open a door with many choices. I can press You can take courses you like, you can choose your favorite department to audition, you can even form a team to sign up for competitions or participate in parties, all kinds of interesting and fresh, so that I was completely amazed and feared that I would miss any experience. The chance of things, therefore, mistaking all the things that I can put on me as happiness, it makes me feel more and more heavy, but I can't bear to let it go.

Recalling the tiring and happy college days, there is always a teacher or senior street saying: "It is very important to establish a network, if you want to have a good way out in the future, you have to rely on building a network. Maybe the classmates around you are your future. A noble person in business." Although I really wanted to "become a useful person successfully and smoothly" back then, I was skeptical about this, and desperately wanted to shout denial in my heart, because I was not good at socializing, and I talked to people before my sophomore year. Always very afraid of life, I am not the humorous, funny and eye-catching person in the crowd, of course, I envy that kind of person, because I am usually the king of periods who can only smile.

Since "building a network" is so important, why didn't I hurry up to expand my network when I was working so hard in a successful life? Is it because I don't know what to do at all? ! I will make friends, but all of them are good friends who have spent countless trivial matters in the CCP. Over time, we have shared weal and woe, and we have experienced the crisis of graduation-themed statistics that turned people overboard, and we have also experienced community evaluation and The excitement and collapse that followed the final exam; of course, we also shared the blessings. After the final exam, a group of people went straight to the Taipei train station to eat a whole 21st century style roast chicken. It tasted ugly, but it was full of youth.

My three or five friends have long since become confidants. I'm glad that I didn't know how to "deliberately" establish contacts, but exchanged my sincerity for these lifelong good friends! There is no exchange of interests between us, and when it comes to helping, it is not as good as "giving out a personal contact card" as imagined. If you say help, you must help, because each other is willing to understand each other from the bottom of their hearts, so it is based on real emotions. Friendship is purer, and there is no need for a reason, and they can naturally accept any rejection from each other or have their own position.

In the past, the network I imagined was knowing a lot of people, and those people could be my help when I needed it. When I thought about it, I was tired and miserable about "managing a network" because I didn't like it. Approaching anyone with a purpose will make me feel like a false and selfish person. I want to be my liking, and I also expect others to really like me. I am so greedy and guilty for liking. I have a habit of cleanliness, and it seems that I have unknowingly attracted another group of friends who are very pure in liking.

What exactly is business and networking? For me, if every relationship had to be "useful" it would be as painful as when I forced myself to be "useful." I don't know friends for "useful benefits". Friends are the intersection of fate and frequency. Maybe good friends don't have to be like good books at all. If I want to increase my knowledge, I can read books by myself. I can share more daily life. The wild lilies in your front yard are blooming. A few days ago, there was a bald eagle in my back yard, talking and laughing. Why not do it?

Nowadays, whenever I see the argument that "to establish a network, you need to make more contacts with people with a higher level of knowledge than yourself, or people who are richer", I always feel that such a network is like love, and it is impossible to find. Make friends by chance! Wouldn't it be too tiring if you had to choose your background like a famous blind date when making friends? What's more, now the nobles and famous families have long been in free love!

Networking is not useless. What is useless is that choosing not to sincerely build emotions will never bring any benefit to life. It is not a healthy mentality to build a good emotional relationship by expecting to meet big people all day long and soar into the sky. Invest in yourself to become a fragrant flower, and let the fragrant fragrance contaminate yourself and others. Instead of thinking about what kind of connections can make people go to the sky, I think it is better to think about how to improve myself, so that when the opportunity comes, I can seize the opportunity! The best part about the timing of networking is that you don't know when you have used it, but being honest with people will lead us to find each other.

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